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sneakytobi
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What is the name of your state? Indiana. I moved from VA to IN four years ago, to care for elderly parents. The man I had been seeing for two years in VA moved here after the first year, and we married within a month. He soon decided that he wanted a divorce, but he has never pursued it. We still live together, in separate rooms for a year. Until this month, everything was "joint". My husband has removed me from our joint checking account, which is where my paycheck was going, and I had to change my direct deposit info at work. I had no access to any money for two weeks, while waiting for my payroll change to occur. He cancelled my cell phone and says that my car insurance will expire tomorrow. He harrasses me daily, verbally and in writing. He states that unless I pay him half of the monthly bills, he will just stop paying them. He earns almost three times as much as I do. The mortgage, car payment, car insurance and utilities are all joint. I can barely afford half of the debt we have incurred together. How much of this is bullying, and how much is truth?