I've Had It

[The XYY Man]

California

My wife hung up on me twice today. She refused to listen to me yelling at her over the phone. I plan on going home and throwing out all her stuff in the street along with that of her son which is not mine. We have two children together.

What can I do to make sure she can never come back in the house again?

 

[Silverplum]

California

My wife hung up on me twice today. She refused to listen to me yelling at her over the phone. I plan on going home and throwing out all her stuff in the street along with that of her son which is not mine. We have two children together.

What can I do to make sure she can never come back in the house again?

Bad "plan." In fact, an illegal plan.

Go speak with a local family law attorney.

 

[CourtClerk]

I'd refuse to listen to you telling at me over the phone, too.

If you throw her stuff out of HER house, then she should throw your stuff out of the house too, then both of you can live in an empty home. You can't throw her out of the marital home. Not even a little bit.

On a side note, it's rather chicken of you to do that to a CHILD. I suppose this should be a lesson to all people who remarry and have kids from a previous relationship. Let's remember, when the relationship sours, all that "he loves my kids like they are his own..." is a bunch of crap.

 

[Antigone*]

California

My wife hung up on me twice today. She refused to listen to me yelling at her over the phone. I plan on going home and throwing out all her stuff in the street along with that of her son which is not mine. We have two children together.

What can I do to make sure she can never come back in the house again?

You are free to leave if you want, but you cannot kick her out.

What city are you in?

 

[mistoffolees]

California

My wife hung up on me twice today. She refused to listen to me yelling at her over the phone. I plan on going home and throwing out all her stuff in the street along with that of her son which is not mine. We have two children together.

What can I do to make sure she can never come back in the house again?

Aside from all the other advice you've gotten, kiss your chances of any real relationship with your own kids goodbye.

I can understand getting angry. I can't understand doing incredibly stupid things because of your anger.

Take an anger management course.

 

[Ohiogal]

California

My wife hung up on me twice today. She refused to listen to me yelling at her over the phone. I plan on going home and throwing out all her stuff in the street along with that of her son which is not mine. We have two children together.

What can I do to make sure she can never come back in the house again?

If you do this, plan to be spending at least the night in jail and be hit with a restraining order prohibiting you from being anywhere near your wife, her son, or your two children as well as the marital home.

You deserved to have the phone slammed in your ear. You don't have the right to yell at ANYONE over the phone.

 

[mommyof4]

My wife hung up on me twice today. She refused to listen to me yelling at her over the phone

Your wife is much nicer than I am. She actually gave you a second chance. If it were me, there would be no second hang up because I wouldn't have answered the phone again.

If you really want to end the marriage and refuse to reside in the home with her, get your stuff together and get a motel room until you can find some other place to live.

 

[Ohiogal]

Your wife is much nicer than I am. She actually gave you a second chance. If it were me, there would be no second hang up because I wouldn't have answered the phone again.

If you really want to end the marriage and refuse to reside in the home with her, get your stuff together and get a motel room until you can find some other place to live.

With his attitude I can foresee the county arranging accomodations for him for at least a little bit. Someone like him that would rant on here like that would be very quick to anger in reality and would most likely be getting a special escort away from the marital home.

OP, how many times have you yelled at your wife before? How many times have you thrown things? Hit your wife or the children?

 

[ecmst12]

Troll troll troll troll troll

 

[Isis1]

Troll troll troll troll troll

nope. not a troll. he really thought this was something he could do.

op, told ya. don't throw a bluff you can't follow through on.

 

[Antigone*]

XYY Man

You should be ashamed of your behaviour. This is no way to treat your wife ~ the mother of your children. You are not being a good example to your kids. You want your kids to grow up behaving like babbling baboons. I'm sure your wife doesn't...you not so much. Thank God your kids have least one rational parent.

 

[mistoffolees]

Your wife is much nicer than I am. She actually gave you a second chance. If it were me, there would be no second hang up because I wouldn't have answered the phone again.

Actually, I used the opposite approach. I answered the phone and then just hung up on her if she started yelling. Sometimes, I'd have to hang up 10 or 15 times before she'd finally calm down. It was therapeutic for me and eventually she learned a lesson.

Besides, I tried it your way and it didn't really help. If I didn't answer, she'd keep calling me back. One time, she called me back 30 times in less than an hour because I wouldn't answer. It was easier to just answer the phone and hang up when she started to yell.

 

[Antigone*]

Actually, I used the opposite approach. I answered the phone and then just hung up on her if she started yelling. Sometimes, I'd have to hang up 10 or 15 times before she'd finally calm down. It was therapeutic for me and eventually she learned a lesson.

Besides, I tried it your way and it didn't really help. If I didn't answer, she'd keep calling me back. One time, she called me back 30 times in less than an hour because I wouldn't answer. It was easier to just answer the phone and hang up when she started to yell.

OMG, I feel like I have to apologize Misto... All this time I thought you were female

One thousand pardons!!!

 

[Isis1]

OMG, I feel like I have to apologize Misto... All this time I thought you were female

One thousand pardons!!!

that was EXACTLY what went through MY head. and the real horrible part....i KNOW that was the second time mist has declared himself male that i myself have read.

 

[ecmst12]

Nice thing about cell phones, they turn off