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What is the name of your state? Florida
Married 4 years; two teenage girls from prior marriage. In April, youngest daughter accused husband of sexual inappropriateness (showing private parts) five and four years ago. He's had psychological testing showing no personality for this; passed 3 lie detector tests by police department. Day accusations made, I called him at work & told him he couldn't come home; I changed the locks on the house. Husband called and reported allegations to DCF himself, but I did what I had to do to protect myself from losing the children until further investigation. Daughter in counseling; husband and I in counseling. DCF closing file; allowed husband to move back into home. But I found out that a day after allegations were made, he closed our joint savings account ($11,600) and reopened in his name. Balance now down to under $9,000. He refuses to reinstate me on accounts. Says he had to protect himself in case he needed to hire an attorney. We are in counseling, and am hoping to avoid divorce, but can a spouse be sued in civil court for closing the accounts, and now going through the money at his will? Or is divorce the only alternative? In 4 years of marriage, I never took one penny out of our savings.
Married 4 years; two teenage girls from prior marriage. In April, youngest daughter accused husband of sexual inappropriateness (showing private parts) five and four years ago. He's had psychological testing showing no personality for this; passed 3 lie detector tests by police department. Day accusations made, I called him at work & told him he couldn't come home; I changed the locks on the house. Husband called and reported allegations to DCF himself, but I did what I had to do to protect myself from losing the children until further investigation. Daughter in counseling; husband and I in counseling. DCF closing file; allowed husband to move back into home. But I found out that a day after allegations were made, he closed our joint savings account ($11,600) and reopened in his name. Balance now down to under $9,000. He refuses to reinstate me on accounts. Says he had to protect himself in case he needed to hire an attorney. We are in counseling, and am hoping to avoid divorce, but can a spouse be sued in civil court for closing the accounts, and now going through the money at his will? Or is divorce the only alternative? In 4 years of marriage, I never took one penny out of our savings.