just to let you know

[court76]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? virginia

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She did change her mind and instead told me that I would have to leave the home and if I didn't leave in 30 minutes then she would have the EPO served on me. She said I could return the next day but if they were EVER called to my home again that I was going to jail.
Was your husband scratched? See, you are leaving out details. IMPORTANT details.

from my locked post...

There are many more things I would love to say to you very cruel people but I only have the time and energy to comment on this one. Maybe later I will comment on all the other ludicrous dissections of my story.

My husband was not scratched, I never even went near him, I was in another room! I am so angry over this, being accused of leaving out important details. No, its not because I was "hysterical and my memory is blurred" as someone suggested, its because I did nothing to him. I told him I was going to divorce him from outside the doorway, walked to the other side of the house, picked up my rag I was using to clean the floors and began to cry.

You people really are unbelievable. Wow. I was told to stay away from this site from some friends who understand what I am going through because they have all been through it also but I happened upon the site again.

Have fun tearing an abused spouse to bits again and making her out to be a child abuser because she is a victim. Have fun treating someone so imhumanely. Have fun defending an abuser, I hope you all can sleep at night.

[Idori]

Originally Posted by court76

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? virginia

I was told to stay away from this site from some friends who understand what I am going through because they have all been through it also but I happened upon the site again.

Sounds like you have some thoughtful, caring friends. You'd probably be doing well to listen to them. They would probably be able to give you the emotional support your looking for if you asked. This site isn't for that.

Sorry about you feeling traumatized by responses you got here. I really doubt the regulars have any trouble sleeping though. They seem pretty comfortable in their responses most of the time. And lots of people (myself included) thank them profusely for what they write here. *shrug* You have a lawyer already, you need a support system certainly but you don't need this site.

Best wishes for you & your situation. I hope you find whatever you need in an appropriate place.

[IsabellaSoriano]

wow OG. really wow. you actually read that whole thing for free?? it took me an hour and a half to get through that whole thing. i am really and truely inspired by the patience you have showed volunteering your time to us nutcases.

[Ohiogal]

She lied. I just caught another lie. She stated:

My two girls are from a prior marriage (we were both young it ended amicably) although he raised the youngest girl from birth, we have one three year old son together.

But before that she had stated:

No, my youngest from a previous marriage is from a rape. A rape that occurred years after my first divorce and years before I remarried. Assumptions work quite nicely though don't they?

This woman is NOT to be trusted and really needs to get a story together that the court will believe and cannot be torn apart.

No assumptions either. She made a big to do about how there are THREE children and only one -- the youngest -- is his. She has been married to him for five years. The middle child is six. So she was either only divorced a VERY short time or the child was NOT a child of the marriage.

On a second reading I am sure i can find other nonsensical facts as well. Not defending an abuser. But I am seeing a liar. You are NOT being honest here with what you present as facts.