just need help

[ree2094]

MY state is ny. My husband move out 7 months ago and now he wants a divorce. i dont know my rights or what will happen to me and my kids it is very nasty and i stay upset and sick everyday dont know what to do.

 

[moburkes]

MY state is ny. My husband move out 7 months ago and now he wants a divorce. i dont know my rights or what will happen to me and my kids it is very nasty and i stay upset and sick everyday dont know what to do.

You'll need to ask a legal question. Your rights are to ask for child support, if you will have residential custody of the children, and alimony if your income is less than his and/or you were married for a long time.

 

[nextwife]

Is he the father of your children?

How long were you married?

Do you work?

If not, how long since you left the workforce?

What sort of marital assets and debts are there? Real estate or Cars purchased during the marriage?

 

[Bali Hai]

You'll need to ask a legal question. Your rights are to ask for child support, if you will have residential custody of the children, and alimony if your income is less than his and/or you were married for a long time.

You did a complete flip from the other post where the husband asked about alimony in a long term marriage.

You must be a woman.

 

[moburkes]

You did a complete flip from the other post where the husband asked about alimony in a long term marriage.

You must be a woman.

OT: Bali- I think I said this before to you. My mother received $10k/month in alimony. They were married 16 years when they separated. She also received child support for minor children. I don't think she deserved that much alimony, but she thought she deserved more. i don't get child support from my kids' dad, though I sure could use it. So, yep, I am a woman.

However, in this post the OP has children, and didn't mention if she worked. In the other, OP stated that he worked, but didn't mention kids. I ddn't mean to appear to be biased.

 

[Just Blue]

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