I now live in Oklahoma. My husband is an alcoholic, drug addict. He is abusive and controlling. He is getting ready to be put in jail or go into a year long substance abuse rehab center. He knows I want to leave and get a divorce. I want to leave now and move back to where I am from in Ohio. Can I just pack up everything and move my kids and myself legally? I do not have the money to file for a divorce or separation or anything. My parents are going to pay for me to move and help me get an apartment. Can I do the legal stuff later in Ohio after I can afford it?