What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? MN and MS
Here is my problem/question.
My husband and I separated 3 mos after a move from MN to MS. It was supposed to be a trial separation but he reneged on that agreement within days. He was unable to file for divorce because of the residency requirements of 6 mos.
Meanwhile I had nowhere to go and have ended up staying with friends in MN, which I now consider my residence, albeit temporary.
The 6 mos is up in a couple weeks. We have mostly agreed on splitting assets and support. The problem is, I would -really- prefer to just be separated for another few months because I do not feel like it is the right thing to divorce at this time, and also because I feel like things I need to get like medical etc (which i am still on his atm) would be easier if I have been in MN for 6 mos and are a resident here.
The complication is that I still need support meanwhile and I think we still need a legal document for the terms we have agreed on, which we would like to have stay the same at the time of divorce.
Edit: since people here are jumping to conclusions, I mean I want any separation agreement made now to ALSO be the divorce agreement, continuing. So if it is 12 mos support, and we dont file for 6 months, then hes already paid 6 and only agreed to pay 6 more, NOT to "scam" him for extra support. He is at fault because of an addiction problem.
Further complicating matters is the difficulty I have trying to get a MS lawyer when I am without any resources in MN, he is the one with the resources. (my ability to get a DL, credit, and job was affected by my waiting for immigration stuff, which was delayed by his problems)
So I am having problems finding advice. I know there is no "legal separation" in MS. If we draw up a separation agreement do we need a lawyer and a judge for that? I am not comfortable having any real legal stuff done before a judge when I can't be represented or can't be there.
Can we just draw up some kind of agreement and have it notarized? I should add the agreement is not complicated as we had no real assets. It is mostly just the issue of support.
Thank you to anyone who can help.
Here is my problem/question.
My husband and I separated 3 mos after a move from MN to MS. It was supposed to be a trial separation but he reneged on that agreement within days. He was unable to file for divorce because of the residency requirements of 6 mos.
Meanwhile I had nowhere to go and have ended up staying with friends in MN, which I now consider my residence, albeit temporary.
The 6 mos is up in a couple weeks. We have mostly agreed on splitting assets and support. The problem is, I would -really- prefer to just be separated for another few months because I do not feel like it is the right thing to divorce at this time, and also because I feel like things I need to get like medical etc (which i am still on his atm) would be easier if I have been in MN for 6 mos and are a resident here.
The complication is that I still need support meanwhile and I think we still need a legal document for the terms we have agreed on, which we would like to have stay the same at the time of divorce.
Edit: since people here are jumping to conclusions, I mean I want any separation agreement made now to ALSO be the divorce agreement, continuing. So if it is 12 mos support, and we dont file for 6 months, then hes already paid 6 and only agreed to pay 6 more, NOT to "scam" him for extra support. He is at fault because of an addiction problem.
Further complicating matters is the difficulty I have trying to get a MS lawyer when I am without any resources in MN, he is the one with the resources. (my ability to get a DL, credit, and job was affected by my waiting for immigration stuff, which was delayed by his problems)
So I am having problems finding advice. I know there is no "legal separation" in MS. If we draw up a separation agreement do we need a lawyer and a judge for that? I am not comfortable having any real legal stuff done before a judge when I can't be represented or can't be there.
Can we just draw up some kind of agreement and have it notarized? I should add the agreement is not complicated as we had no real assets. It is mostly just the issue of support.
Thank you to anyone who can help.
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