I do not think so!!A good attorney is a wonderful thing to have on your side during a messy divorce. Yours should be taking husband's deposition (under oath and admissable in court). Some cleverly phrased questions can reveal all kinds of stuff and admissions. A $16k ring never showed up but I did get back $8k for my share of community property.I also suggest that you run a credit report on him and find out all the credit cards and then get copies of all statements going back however far you need to. If you tell them it is for an IRS audit they may not even charge you. Some cards with only his name on them will require a court order for release.Get copies of all cancelled checks.Pick out big ticket items on statements and ask for receiptfrom store.Do as much of your own forensic accounting as you can to help keep down your attorney fees. Cry on your friends' shoulders. Not your attorney. See a psychologist through your health plan. Hang in there and good luck.