mauricetill
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Maryland
Trying to get this agreement done my lawyer and I are suppose to meet with my wife and her lawyer. This is the last resort and I am going to ask for us to go to court, before I do I have several questions:
She wants 20% of my military retirement, and $800 child support, (I offered $400 and I would pay my daughter's private school (elementary) tuition $336 directly to the school. She wants it all herself. My question is do I have to agree for my child to attend private school in the future, I had it in the agreement. If she doesn't go to private school then its $636. I feel my daughter can go to public school.
Currently I am paying the house note, and she still wants me to pay the school, just came back from overseas, but it's like they don't care if I live, right now I am living with my mother and commuting to my new duty station. The house is on the market, but she wants to stay in there until the end of December. Can I deduct the mortgage from her child support if she doesn't help pay it in December?
She want my SBP (insurance), when I retire, can I request 1/2 of her 401K and that she provides insurance for me since my standard of living has dropped and do I have to give her the whole 55% or cover her for the same amount she would get in my retirement which is 20% or can I add my child and not her as a beneficiary?
Trying to get this agreement done my lawyer and I are suppose to meet with my wife and her lawyer. This is the last resort and I am going to ask for us to go to court, before I do I have several questions:
She wants 20% of my military retirement, and $800 child support, (I offered $400 and I would pay my daughter's private school (elementary) tuition $336 directly to the school. She wants it all herself. My question is do I have to agree for my child to attend private school in the future, I had it in the agreement. If she doesn't go to private school then its $636. I feel my daughter can go to public school.
Currently I am paying the house note, and she still wants me to pay the school, just came back from overseas, but it's like they don't care if I live, right now I am living with my mother and commuting to my new duty station. The house is on the market, but she wants to stay in there until the end of December. Can I deduct the mortgage from her child support if she doesn't help pay it in December?
She want my SBP (insurance), when I retire, can I request 1/2 of her 401K and that she provides insurance for me since my standard of living has dropped and do I have to give her the whole 55% or cover her for the same amount she would get in my retirement which is 20% or can I add my child and not her as a beneficiary?