Must We Divorce?

What is the name of your state? VA

what happens when one party does not want a divorce yet the other one does?

[stealth2]

The one that wants a divorce files, and a divorce is granted.

So even if one party wants to try and work through it, a divorce is still granted w/ out the others consent?

[stealth2]

Yep. If it's a no fault state (most are), consent isn't needed.

you can't make someone work things out.

Jeez ! and they wonder why the divorce rate is so unbelievably high !! I think they should make the couples go to counseling like they do prior to marriage.

you can opt for delay by some sort of "quasi- mandatory court ordered" pre-divorce counseling; however, this is only delaying the inevitable if one party wants out. I know - I wish all states had court ordered "marriage counseling" also before granting a divorce. I may be blasted/flamed but I think it's just too damned easy to get a divorce if spouse wants out and the other doesn't.

I absolutly agree w/ you !! The courts ought to come up w / systems to help the marriages stay together bec there is just so much at stake and to lose. In most cases there are also children involved that will be affected forever... it really is a shame.

Can't the party disagree on the grounds even in a no-fault state? In other words, if one files on grounds of incompatibility, the other side can answer that they disagree, and then it gets messy?? Isn't that why its usually suggested to file on multiple grounds if possible?

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