Debbie Hagan
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Texas
Almost 2 years ago my husband thought he was divorced. She reopened the case because "she" didn't think she got enough out of his rear-end. Needless to say, she didn't show up in court for the hearing so it was final. (There is also a minor child involved which my husband has custody of and she pays NO child support and refuses to) So when it was re-opened, she got LESS than she bargained for. She wanted 40,000 dollars of which there was none, and to assure she paid NO child support but still has her visitation rights. My husbands lawyer was a "low budget" lawyer. It was all he could afford trying to pay ALL the debts off and work and raise his son. To get to my point, the second time around in court, my husband was ordered to assume a mortgage that she had taken out 4 years ago on another house they had owned. The house that the mortgage was taken out on had been sold 3 years ago, owner-finance. The house we live in now was paid for at the time. So he was supposed to refinance that mortgage and transfer it to this house. Well, his credit score was not high enough, thanks to his "X", so MY credit score had to be used. Therefore, the new mortgage is in my name only. When the loan was made all the money was paid to me. It was also ordered in round k#2 divorce that as soon as HE refinanced the mortgage he was to pay her $2000.00 dollars, for what I don't know. Anyway, he did not get the loan, I did. Am I responsible to pay HER? His name is not even on the note. Since round #2, he reopened the divorce before his 30 days were up to ask for insurance coverage and child support for his son. I don't understand any of this and I am VERY confused. Would someone please help? By the way, my husband was laid off work the end of last month and has been working his tail off and is out of town right now looking for work. A man just left my front door looking for him to serve him with "papers" from his "X". WHAT can it be now? Do I have to pay her the $2000.00 dollars? OR does he go sit in jail and not make any money so we can't even eat. God, please I wish there was a such thing as EQUAL JUSTICE in this country. Why are the men always drained dry and the women left smelling like a rose no matter what the situation? She left him and his son and never looked back. Now she's living high on the hog and wanting more. Where does all this end? or can it?
Almost 2 years ago my husband thought he was divorced. She reopened the case because "she" didn't think she got enough out of his rear-end. Needless to say, she didn't show up in court for the hearing so it was final. (There is also a minor child involved which my husband has custody of and she pays NO child support and refuses to) So when it was re-opened, she got LESS than she bargained for. She wanted 40,000 dollars of which there was none, and to assure she paid NO child support but still has her visitation rights. My husbands lawyer was a "low budget" lawyer. It was all he could afford trying to pay ALL the debts off and work and raise his son. To get to my point, the second time around in court, my husband was ordered to assume a mortgage that she had taken out 4 years ago on another house they had owned. The house that the mortgage was taken out on had been sold 3 years ago, owner-finance. The house we live in now was paid for at the time. So he was supposed to refinance that mortgage and transfer it to this house. Well, his credit score was not high enough, thanks to his "X", so MY credit score had to be used. Therefore, the new mortgage is in my name only. When the loan was made all the money was paid to me. It was also ordered in round k#2 divorce that as soon as HE refinanced the mortgage he was to pay her $2000.00 dollars, for what I don't know. Anyway, he did not get the loan, I did. Am I responsible to pay HER? His name is not even on the note. Since round #2, he reopened the divorce before his 30 days were up to ask for insurance coverage and child support for his son. I don't understand any of this and I am VERY confused. Would someone please help? By the way, my husband was laid off work the end of last month and has been working his tail off and is out of town right now looking for work. A man just left my front door looking for him to serve him with "papers" from his "X". WHAT can it be now? Do I have to pay her the $2000.00 dollars? OR does he go sit in jail and not make any money so we can't even eat. God, please I wish there was a such thing as EQUAL JUSTICE in this country. Why are the men always drained dry and the women left smelling like a rose no matter what the situation? She left him and his son and never looked back. Now she's living high on the hog and wanting more. Where does all this end? or can it?