What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ
My husband and I have been married for over 14 years now with a 13 year old daughter. Things have not been good in our relationship for about 2 years. He's been nasty and has negleted me. I'm done.
we are in major debt as well, we own a home and are behind with the mortgage payments, I want to keep the house, but I don't think I can handle the payments on my own. He also wants custody of our daughter and she rather be with him as well. It breaks my heart. He has turned her against me, although he said he hasn't. He's been vindictive, last week he cut the line on the circuit braker for the air condtioner and this week turned off the hot water so I cannot use it to shower for work in the morning. So I have been staying with a friend for the past 3 days. He has been the bread winner, so he was paying all the bills, he said in the past my money is nothing, even though it was direct deposited into our checking for bills to be paid, which he had closed that acct and I have another acct with my credit union. Wants me to pay for bills now. He canceled my cell phone and claimed it stollen, had to get a prepaid cell so at least I can get in touch with my daughter if I needed to. Canceled my car insurance and said he sold my car, had to get my own insurance immediately, can't drive without insurance. And I have to pay for my car loan now as well. I feel he is just throwing me to the curb with out anything. I don't know what to do, I really cannot afford an attorney. Any advice will be much appreciated!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
My husband and I have been married for over 14 years now with a 13 year old daughter. Things have not been good in our relationship for about 2 years. He's been nasty and has negleted me. I'm done.
we are in major debt as well, we own a home and are behind with the mortgage payments, I want to keep the house, but I don't think I can handle the payments on my own. He also wants custody of our daughter and she rather be with him as well. It breaks my heart. He has turned her against me, although he said he hasn't. He's been vindictive, last week he cut the line on the circuit braker for the air condtioner and this week turned off the hot water so I cannot use it to shower for work in the morning. So I have been staying with a friend for the past 3 days. He has been the bread winner, so he was paying all the bills, he said in the past my money is nothing, even though it was direct deposited into our checking for bills to be paid, which he had closed that acct and I have another acct with my credit union. Wants me to pay for bills now. He canceled my cell phone and claimed it stollen, had to get a prepaid cell so at least I can get in touch with my daughter if I needed to. Canceled my car insurance and said he sold my car, had to get my own insurance immediately, can't drive without insurance. And I have to pay for my car loan now as well. I feel he is just throwing me to the curb with out anything. I don't know what to do, I really cannot afford an attorney. Any advice will be much appreciated!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?