What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
I have a lot of questions, so thank you in advance to anyone who helps!
My stbx and I were married for 5 1/2 years and have been wanting to get divorced for about 9 months now. We still live together, although we sleep in separate rooms and basically live separate lives. We have a 2 1/2 y/o son together. I was a SAHM until just recently, I finally got a job in June. I don't make a lot of money, but I got my foot in the door, and I am very happy there.
STBX and I were mostly in agreement about everything as far as living arrangements, custody, belongings, and child support until recently. He found a "graphic picture" that someone had sent me in my cell phone and he flipped. (he has been dating someone since April or May,even though he won't admit it)
Ok, so i know I should have deleted the pic before he had a chance to see it, but I had no idea he would go through my phone. Now, he is saying I will get NOTHING and refuses to give me anything. He hired an attorney awhile back to help with the paperwork (nothing has been filed yet), but like I said, I just started my job, so i do not have enough money to hire one at this time (And I have NOBODY to help me).
STBX wants me to move out, without our son, and find a place to live. We have a house in HIS name only (because I had a previous bankruptcy) but we bought if after we were married. All the furniture was purchased after marriage, and he has a restaurant that he bought after we were married. Do I legally have a right to any of this? He is saying he won't let me take any furniture and will only give me what the court says I get for child support. He also says I can't move to a "crappy place" with our son. I don't expect a lot, but some furniture would be very helpful.
Can I get an attorney without ANY money? If I have to pay for a new place all on my own, i am going to need to save ALL of my money for that (an even then it's going to be rough), so I feel very torn.
Also, lastly, can he do anything about the pic he found in my phone???? He said he's going to use it against me to show what a sl*t I am...which I am not, but he has texted me over and over calling me a sl*t. He said I shouldn't do things like that since I am a mother.
Thanks so much!!
I have a lot of questions, so thank you in advance to anyone who helps!
My stbx and I were married for 5 1/2 years and have been wanting to get divorced for about 9 months now. We still live together, although we sleep in separate rooms and basically live separate lives. We have a 2 1/2 y/o son together. I was a SAHM until just recently, I finally got a job in June. I don't make a lot of money, but I got my foot in the door, and I am very happy there.
STBX and I were mostly in agreement about everything as far as living arrangements, custody, belongings, and child support until recently. He found a "graphic picture" that someone had sent me in my cell phone and he flipped. (he has been dating someone since April or May,even though he won't admit it)
Ok, so i know I should have deleted the pic before he had a chance to see it, but I had no idea he would go through my phone. Now, he is saying I will get NOTHING and refuses to give me anything. He hired an attorney awhile back to help with the paperwork (nothing has been filed yet), but like I said, I just started my job, so i do not have enough money to hire one at this time (And I have NOBODY to help me).
STBX wants me to move out, without our son, and find a place to live. We have a house in HIS name only (because I had a previous bankruptcy) but we bought if after we were married. All the furniture was purchased after marriage, and he has a restaurant that he bought after we were married. Do I legally have a right to any of this? He is saying he won't let me take any furniture and will only give me what the court says I get for child support. He also says I can't move to a "crappy place" with our son. I don't expect a lot, but some furniture would be very helpful.
Can I get an attorney without ANY money? If I have to pay for a new place all on my own, i am going to need to save ALL of my money for that (an even then it's going to be rough), so I feel very torn.
Also, lastly, can he do anything about the pic he found in my phone???? He said he's going to use it against me to show what a sl*t I am...which I am not, but he has texted me over and over calling me a sl*t. He said I shouldn't do things like that since I am a mother.
Thanks so much!!
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