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03-07-2007, 02:07 PM
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What is the name of your state? PA
I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce, he and his soon ex have an 8 year old daughter together and she has a 13 year old son from a previous marriage. My friend considers the boy as his own, since he has helped raise him since the age of 4. she had an affair almost 2 years ago and filed for divorce, has not signed the papers yet and they have about 7 months before it will automatically go before a judge, which then she will have to sign. He began dating someone almost a year ago. They had to deal with alot of garbage from the soon ex wife, she would not allow him to see the children if he was with the girlfriend. Then all of a sudden he broke things off with the girlfriend stating that he needs to do this in order to see his children, I'm assuming that was her demand. This past weekend the soon to be ex began staying at his house with the kids, unfortunately for him he lives across the street from her mother, which is where she was staying when she left him. He claims that he will do whatever he has to do to make her sign the papers. If his attorney would find out about this is there any legal ramifications resulting from his improper actions? |
03-07-2007, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Naples  What is the name of your state? PA
I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce, he and his soon ex have an 8 year old daughter together and she has a 13 year old son from a previous marriage. My friend considers the boy as his own, since he has helped raise him since the age of 4. she had an affair almost 2 years ago and filed for divorce, has not signed the papers yet and they have about 7 months before it will automatically go before a judge, which then she will have to sign. He began dating someone almost a year ago. They had to deal with alot of garbage from the soon ex wife, she would not allow him to see the children if he was with the girlfriend. Then all of a sudden he broke things off with the girlfriend stating that he needs to do this in order to see his children, I'm assuming that was her demand. This past weekend the soon to be ex began staying at his house with the kids, unfortunately for him he lives across the street from her mother, which is where she was staying when she left him. He claims that he will do whatever he has to do to make her sign the papers. If his attorney would find out about this is there any legal ramifications resulting from his improper actions? | His improper actions were what? Breaking up with someone and having his kids and STBX stay at his house?
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03-07-2007, 02:14 PM
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03-07-2007, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted by fairisfair HUH?????? | Me too! 
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03-07-2007, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by nextwife Me too! | What do you think the odds are that the OP and the ex-girlfriend are one in the same?
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03-07-2007, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted by ceara19 What do you think the odds are that the OP and the ex-girlfriend are one in the same? | A heck of a lot better than my winning last night's mega millions -- and dangit I wasted two dollars playing.
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Parents should remember three things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex (or soon to be ex) & when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death parts you & how you treat your children determines what type of nursing home you end up in.
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03-08-2007, 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Ohiogal A heck of a lot better than my winning last night's mega millions -- and dangit I wasted two dollars playing. | I didn't win the mega million either. But I did win the Euro Lottery, The UK Lottery, The Irish Lottery, The BMW Lottery and the Peugeot Lottery!!! (And that was just TODAY'S email).
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03-08-2007, 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Naples What is the name of your state? PA
I have a friend who is currently going through a divorce, he and his soon ex have an 8 year old daughter together and she has a 13 year old son from a previous marriage. My friend considers the boy as his own, since he has helped raise him since the age of 4. she had an affair almost 2 years ago and filed for divorce, has not signed the papers yet and they have about 7 months before it will automatically go before a judge, which then she will have to sign. He began dating someone almost a year ago. They had to deal with alot of garbage from the soon ex wife, she would not allow him to see the children if he was with the girlfriend. Then all of a sudden he broke things off with the girlfriend stating that he needs to do this in order to see his children, I'm assuming that was her demand. This past weekend the soon to be ex began staying at his house with the kids, unfortunately for him he lives across the street from her mother, which is where she was staying when she left him. He claims that he will do whatever he has to do to make her sign the papers. If his attorney would find out about this is there any legal ramifications resulting from his improper actions? | OP , your " friend " is either playing you or his STBX . Run Forest , Run !!!! | |
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