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alleycat2600

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What is the name of your state?undefinedWhat is the name of your state? N.C. I really can use some help here please.. The day after xmas I caught my stbx kinding of jerking off on cam with another woman.. He had become nuts by downloading porno on here where any of my 3 young children can see.. I had gotten intouch with a lawyer who told me to get him out of the house.. now here lies the problem.. the only way I could get him to leave without putting up a fuss was to tell him that he needed to leave the house due to his porno and the kids.. I told him that he could serve years in prison for his if he doesnt leave..He never had anything to do with the kids nor with thier health and such.. In Oct of this year our 9 yr old daughter had her appendix taken out and he didnt even stay till she got out.. he had to rush home to get on the computer.. well any way he told my aunt that he was moving back in a month and he didnt care where the kids and I go.. we could go live on the street.. well my trouble is this the land is in his name only and the tralier is in his and his ex wifes name.. we have been married for 10 yrs and lived here the whole time.. I also put some money down on the downpayment.. he said he didnt care what happened to us as long as he gets his land and house back.. this tralier is falling apart and the lights in the back doesnt work and the floors are caving in.. I dont know what to do at this point.. we have no legal seperation but i have had the kids since he left.. He only sees them for an hour on the weekends and thats it.. he doesnt want the kids but just the home.. What can I do to keep him out of here.. I dont think I can get a restraining order because he hasnt threated us.. any advice on what I can do? I would appreicate any advice.. I dug a hole and cant get out..
 
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Shay-Pari'e

Senior Member
alleycat2600 said:
What is the name of your state?undefinedWhat is the name of your state? N.C. I really can use some help here please.. The day after xmas I caught my stbx kinding of jerking off on cam with another woman.. He had become nuts by downloading porno on here where any of my 3 young children can see.. I had gotten intouch with a lawyer who told me to get him out of the house.. Get a new lawyer, he knows you cannot simply kick him out of the house.

now here lies the problem.. the only way I could get him to leave without putting up a fuss was to tell him that he needed to leave the house due to his porno and the kids.. I told him that he could serve years in prison for his if he doesnt leave..He never had anything to do with the kids nor with thier health and such.. In Oct of this year our 9 yr old daughter had her appendix taken out and he didnt even stay till she got out.. he had to rush home to get on the computer.. well any way he told my aunt that he was moving back in a month and he didnt care where the kids and I go.. we could go live on the street.. well my trouble is this the land is in his name only and the tralier is in his and his ex wifes name.. we have been married for 10 yrs and lived here the whole time.. I also put some money down on the downpayment.. he said he didnt care what happened to us as long as he gets his land and house back.. this tralier is falling apart and the lights in the back doesnt work and the floors are caving in.. I dont know what to do at this point.. we have no legal seperation but i have had the kids since he left.. He only sees them for an hour on the weekends and thats it.. he doesnt want the kids but just the home.. What can I do to keep him out of here.. I dont think I can get a restraining order because he hasnt threated us.. any advice on what I can do? I would appreicate any advice.. I dug a hole and cant get out..
What does your attorney say this time?

I can't possibly believe your post.

psst. If only IAAL saw this one.
 

alleycat2600

Junior Member
replying

All I know is that lawyer told me that it was a brillant idea to get him out and that my kids really are tramatized over what he has done.. have you ever walked on your father masterbating ? not a pretty site for a 9 yr old daughter.. there should be laws to protect them from that stuff.. yeah sounds as if I am the idiot huh? but I did what I had to for my children.. and yes I didnt kick him out he left on his own free will packed his truck and left.
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
alleycat2600 said:
All I know is that lawyer told me that it was a brillant idea to get him out and that my kids really are tramatized over what he has done.. have you ever walked on your father masterbating ? not a pretty site for a 9 yr old daughter.. there should be laws to protect them from that stuff.. yeah sounds as if I am the idiot huh? but I did what I had to for my children.. and yes I didnt kick him out he left on his own free will packed his truck and left.
Are you sure that you even WANT the home? It doesn't sound to me like its any prize. You have been married long enough that you would be entitled to part of the appreciated value of the property even if he kept the home. Maybe you and the kids would be better off getting out.
 

alleycat2600

Junior Member
thanks!!

It isnt really a great home no but he made sure there was no money for us to leave.He said that it was normal for men to do this and that we would have to learn to live with it. I am heading to child protective services tuesday to see what they say.. seems its not a normal thing for a father to do infront of his children.. I have a call into a attorney and not the same one to see what they say. the truth to be told this trailer should be condemned.. thanks for replying and not making me feel like an idiot like the other post..
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
alleycat2600 said:
It isnt really a great home no but he made sure there was no money for us to leave.He said that it was normal for men to do this and that we would have to learn to live with it. I am heading to child protective services tuesday to see what they say.. seems its not a normal thing for a father to do infront of his children.. I have a call into a attorney and not the same one to see what they say. the truth to be told this trailer should be condemned.. thanks for replying and not making me feel like an idiot like the other post..
Heck no its not an appropriate thing for a father to do in front of his children!
Talking to child protective services is probably a wise idea. At a minimum the man needs some serious help.

However, you also should be talking to the welfare department as well. You may be able to get some help with housing. It certainly doesn't sound like the home is a safe or healthy place for children either. If Child Protective Services gets involved and they find the home to be unsuitable that can cause you serious problems as well. Is there no one else that you and the children can stay with?
 

alleycat2600

Junior Member
I have a place

Well I am working with a friend on getting a house together which would help when I start my nursing.. The only thing is that I cant move right away.. If they condemn the place they would help us find temporary housing until I can get on my feet..I need to go to child support and get that started as well.I have full custody of them now. He only saw them for a couple of hours today.. another thing he claims he is writing down what I spend the money he gives me toward his bills.. is that right of him to do? I mean I am paying all of his bills now plus taking care of the kids..if I spend a dime on myself he throws a fit.. like a pair of new sneakers.. gosh even went as far as saying he hired a private eye.. that poor guy must be bored to death..lol..all I do is take the kids to school and clean and my girlfriend comes over once in a while.. lol I dont want to date even if i wanted to its the furtherest thing from my mind. He says that Child protective wont do a thing to him so hes not worried that it is a normal man thing.. he really does need help , he says its all my fault that I knew he was like this.. but he wasnt and if he was I didnt see it ..
 

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