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09-04-2007, 08:50 AM
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What is the name of your state? new york
My husband and I have been married for just over a month and out of the blue he is a different person. we both realize that we made a huge mistake. what is the easiest ,cheapest way to resolve this marraige in the fastest way possible? |
09-04-2007, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted by jdelill6  What is the name of your state? new york
My husband and I have been married for just over a month and out of the blue he is a different person. we both realize that we made a huge mistake. what is the easiest ,cheapest way to resolve this marraige in the fastest way possible? | File for divorce and don't be greedy. |
09-04-2007, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by jdelill6 What is the name of your state? new york
My husband and I have been married for just over a month and out of the blue he is a different person. we both realize that we made a huge mistake. what is the easiest ,cheapest way to resolve this marraige in the fastest way possible? | NY has a one year waiting period (period of separation) in order to get an no-fault divorce. Otherwise, you have to have "grounds". |
09-05-2007, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted by LdiJ NY has a one year waiting period (period of separation) in order to get an no-fault divorce. Otherwise, you have to have "grounds". | She has grounds: "Cruel and Inhuman Treatment", women in NY universally use this one when they want out and can't prove anything else. |
09-05-2007, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Bali Hai She has grounds: "Cruel and Inhuman Treatment", women in NY universally use this one when they want out and can't prove anything else. | And if they both really want out as the OP states, than even the H can file and use cruel and inhuman against her. She wont object as she wants out too!!!
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09-05-2007, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by almost done And if they both really want out as the OP states, than even the H can file and use cruel and inhuman against her. She wont object as she wants out too!!! | That is correct as long as someone isn't using fault to put money in their pocket.
This is the game women play and the courts go right along with it. |
09-06-2007, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Bali Hai File for divorce and don't be greedy. | I am not sure what an annulment is exactly, but is that at all possible or does it have to be a divorce? its hasnt even been 6 weeks since the wedding. I just feel like there should be an easier way out. |
09-06-2007, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted by jdelill6 I am not sure what an annulment is exactly, but is that at all possible or does it have to be a divorce? its hasnt even been 6 weeks since the wedding. I just feel like there should be an easier way out. | Sorry - your lack of diligence in choosing your husband does not rise to the level required for an annulment.
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09-06-2007, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted by jdelill6 I am not sure what an annulment is exactly, but is that at all possible or does it have to be a divorce? its hasnt even been 6 weeks since the wedding. I just feel like there should be an easier way out. | Annulment is much more expansive and time consuming than a divorce.
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