BLC2005 said:Is this against any laws? Son is 6 daughter is 3. We live in Indiana... sorry if this is the wrong forum. Not sure which to use.
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No, its not against any laws in Indiana.BLC2005 said:Is this against any laws? Son is 6 daughter is 3. We live in Indiana... sorry if this is the wrong forum. Not sure which to use.
Thanks...
Although there are situations which concern apartment rental where a situation like this may require the rental of a 3 bedroom apt.LdiJ said:No, its not against any laws in Indiana.
I don't know of ANY agency that would get involved in this. Two children sharing a room is not unusual. If there were 8 kids sharing one room, that might be different.justalayman said:Although there are situations which concern apartment rental where a situation like this may require the rental of a 3 bedroom apt.
I don't know if there is some agency that would control this or is an individual apt. complex rule but I have seen this required. The ages would probably make a diff. as well.
I can see where a judge would approve the request in your case. Many rental properties have the same rule, no more than 2 people per bedroom. I can't see getting an approval for this case though. It's not at all unusual for 2 siblings to share a room and they are too young for the fact that they are of the opposite sex to have any adverse effect on the kids. When mine were little, not only did they share a room, they took baths together too. The only "issue" that ever came up was the first time my daughter noticed her little brother had a penis. Then her only question was "when is his thingy going to fall off like mine did?" I think she got it confused with the umbilical cord!mlk1978 said:I know in Michigan there isn't a law on that, but not sure on your state. But I can say this. I have 3 kids and recently went through a nasty battle with my oldest. (I have 2 girls and one boy) a couple of years ago when my son was born they (My 1st and 2nd children) shared a room. After I had my 3rd child, the court order was ammended because my ex threw a fit. The stipulation was that I was required to have a 3 bedroom home. So it depends, your local CPS probobly wont say anything, but your ex might. I cant say for sure that the judge will grant his "suggestion" but it is possible.
I have seen it required though. Strangely enough it was in Mi. The problem was with the male/female thing. I do not remember the age of the children involved but the apt. complex would not rent less than a 3 bedroom for mom, dad, 1 daughter and 1 son. I believe there was a ADC/welfare involvement, but this was many years ago and the details are fuzzy. I do remember mom was real pissed about it.ceara19 said:I don't know of ANY agency that would get involved in this. Two children sharing a room is not unusual. If there were 8 kids sharing one room, that might be different.
Apartment complex rules usually concern how many TOTAL occupants can live in a particular unit (IE- 4 people in a 2-bedroom). It is neither the concern or business of the management what the sex of the children are. As long as they under 18, it is the right of the PARENT to decide, not an apartment manager. If the children were older, a judge may feel as though the children need seperate rooms, but it would be very difficult for them to FORCE a parent to move if the parent can't AFFORD to.
Litigation! said:My response:
It's very unfortunate that you're even asking this question. Who is the real interested party - - you, or an ex-spouse? Whomever is the interested party wins the "Golden Dufus" Award, because it's so stupid!
The only exception to this however is West Virginia, the incest capitol of the World, and parts of Alabama and Georgia.
Other than that, no one would even think of making this an issue.
IAAL
Perhaps your ex should provide more child support so you can afford another bedroom thenBLC2005 said:Your correct it is very unfortunate!! Infact your also correct! However, its not the ex its the ex's room mate (female).
I have 3 kids boy 12, boy 6, and girl with 2nd marriage 3. My 12 year old is ADHD and ODD, he has had a history of making his brothers life misserable and so I decided to put the younger two together (with bunk beds of course).
I knew that what I was doing was the right thing but the "room mate" is spouting off to my boys that I was doing something wrong so I wanted to get others oppinions. I feel that my younger two are still at the age that they can share and play whereas my 12 year old needs his space to go and calm down when neccessary and the fact that he is entering his teen years is another factor.
Thank you all for helping, it really seem silly, but I needed your answers to to assist me in telling my boys that mommy is doing the right thing for our entire family.
Tell your ex's roomate to butt out. How you raise your children is none of her/his concern and they have no business telling your children anything about what they think.BLC2005 said:Your correct it is very unfortunate!! Infact your also correct! However, its not the ex its the ex's room mate (female).
I have 3 kids boy 12, boy 6, and girl with 2nd marriage 3. My 12 year old is ADHD and ODD, he has had a history of making his brothers life misserable and so I decided to put the younger two together (with bunk beds of course).
I knew that what I was doing was the right thing but the "room mate" is spouting off to my boys that I was doing something wrong so I wanted to get others oppinions. I feel that my younger two are still at the age that they can share and play whereas my 12 year old needs his space to go and calm down when neccessary and the fact that he is entering his teen years is another factor.
Thank you all for helping, it really seem silly, but I needed your answers to to assist me in telling my boys that mommy is doing the right thing for our entire family.
My dad owns several properties that are rented through Section 8... I know that there are, in fact, rules re: gender and bedroom sharing when one is attempting to rent a section 8 property... but that's obviously program specific.ceara19 said:I don't know of ANY agency that would get involved in this. Two children sharing a room is not unusual. If there were 8 kids sharing one room, that might be different.
Apartment complex rules usually concern how many TOTAL occupants can live in a particular unit (IE- 4 people in a 2-bedroom). It is neither the concern or business of the management what the sex of the children are.
BLC2005 said:Your correct it is very unfortunate!! Infact your also correct! However, its not the ex its the ex's room mate (female).
I have 3 kids boy 12, boy 6, and girl with 2nd marriage 3. My 12 year old is ADHD and ODD, he has had a history of making his brothers life misserable and so I decided to put the younger two together (with bunk beds of course).
I knew that what I was doing was the right thing but the "room mate" is spouting off to my boys that I was doing something wrong so I wanted to get others oppinions. I feel that my younger two are still at the age that they can share and play whereas my 12 year old needs his space to go and calm down when neccessary and the fact that he is entering his teen years is another factor.
Thank you all for helping, it really seem silly, but I needed your answers to to assist me in telling my boys that mommy is doing the right thing for our entire family.
Step children sharing a room is a higher risk than biological although both are still a risk.BLC2005 said:Thank you all for helping, it really seem silly, but I needed your answers to to assist me in telling my boys that mommy is doing the right thing for our entire family.