What is the name of your state? CA
I've been married 7 1/2 yrs and my husband filled for divorce. He's been cheating on me but in Ca. who cares right? He forced me to sign a pre-nup just before our wedding.
And I do mean forced. You see my kids & me moved in with him only a few months after we met and we were living there for over 2 yrs before we got married. We became completely dependent on him financially because he insisted on handling all the money. When he presented me with the pre-nup he told me if I didn't sign it he would throw us out and shoot my horse. I can guess what your thinking, but I was afraid and didn't know what else to do so I just did what he said.
Of course the whole marriage he was controlling and abusive. Physically and emotionally and I was too stupid to get out, but I'm out now and I want to know if there is any way too fight the pre-nup? The pre-nup said that he had $600,000 in assets that was his before the marriage and that there would be no alimony in the event of a divorce. Those assets were his house that I moved into with him. I later was added to that mortgage when he wanted to refinance and we used the equity to buy land. Then we sold that place for $775,000 and bought land and built a new place that is now worth around 1.5 million.
He's also stated in his divorce papers that everything that we purchased since we were married is HIS sole & seperate property. Even though we've been filling taxes together on everything.
He gave me money to leave but not enough to hire an attorney. All the ranch income he's controlled and my name is not on any of those accounts. But I do have an appointment with a self help attorney. It's a 2 hour drive away so I want to fill out whatever papers I need to in advance so I can be prepared.
Please, any advise would be greatly appreciated
I've been married 7 1/2 yrs and my husband filled for divorce. He's been cheating on me but in Ca. who cares right? He forced me to sign a pre-nup just before our wedding.
And I do mean forced. You see my kids & me moved in with him only a few months after we met and we were living there for over 2 yrs before we got married. We became completely dependent on him financially because he insisted on handling all the money. When he presented me with the pre-nup he told me if I didn't sign it he would throw us out and shoot my horse. I can guess what your thinking, but I was afraid and didn't know what else to do so I just did what he said.
Of course the whole marriage he was controlling and abusive. Physically and emotionally and I was too stupid to get out, but I'm out now and I want to know if there is any way too fight the pre-nup? The pre-nup said that he had $600,000 in assets that was his before the marriage and that there would be no alimony in the event of a divorce. Those assets were his house that I moved into with him. I later was added to that mortgage when he wanted to refinance and we used the equity to buy land. Then we sold that place for $775,000 and bought land and built a new place that is now worth around 1.5 million.
He's also stated in his divorce papers that everything that we purchased since we were married is HIS sole & seperate property. Even though we've been filling taxes together on everything.
He gave me money to leave but not enough to hire an attorney. All the ranch income he's controlled and my name is not on any of those accounts. But I do have an appointment with a self help attorney. It's a 2 hour drive away so I want to fill out whatever papers I need to in advance so I can be prepared.
Please, any advise would be greatly appreciated
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