Pending Divorce/Separation and Dating Others

[peanut butter]

What is the name of your state? CA

My girlfriend and I initially met through business in July. She says her soon-to-be ex-husband began moving out of her house in June, yet didn't completely finish until August. She and I began dating in August but didn't formalize our boyfriend/girlfriend relationship until March. Based off this and her fear of him claiming her to be "at-fault", should we hide our relationship? She and I produce and promote events together, but she is fearful that online promoting of our partnered projects will expose us and enable him to use such partnerships as "evidence" in his favor. Is she right? A young child, child-support, house, car, and other things are on the line, so I want to be sure I understand the risks involved.

Thank you very much.
PB

[CALIFPROLAW3]

Originally Posted by peanut butter

What is the name of your state? CA

My girlfriend and I initially met through business in July. She says her soon-to-be ex-husband began moving out of her house in June, yet didn't completely finish until August. She and I began dating in August but didn't formalize our boyfriend/girlfriend relationship until March. Based off this and her fear of him claiming her to be "at-fault", should we hide our relationship? She and I produce and promote events together, but she is fearful that online promoting of our partnered projects will expose us and enable him to use such partnerships as "evidence" in his favor. Is she right? A young child, child-support, house, car, and other things are on the line, so I want to be sure I understand the risks involved.

Thank you very much.
PB

My response:

Where was the Dissolution filed?

IAAL

i soooo understand what you mean. we filed in san diego county(vista), and hes military...in fl if you've filed its no longer wrong to date...however, shes been seeing another guy and even got pregnant, yet his command says he needs to move back to the barracks b/c living with me is adulterous....AFTER HES FILED....i need the same help you do man....email me if you ever find other info on this.....
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[ceara19]

Originally Posted by peanut butter

What is the name of your state? CA

My girlfriend and I initially met through business in July. She says her soon-to-be ex-husband began moving out of her house in June, yet didn't completely finish until August. She and I began dating in August but didn't formalize our boyfriend/girlfriend relationship until March. Based off this and her fear of him claiming her to be "at-fault", should we hide our relationship? She and I produce and promote events together, but she is fearful that online promoting of our partnered projects will expose us and enable him to use such partnerships as "evidence" in his favor. Is she right? A young child, child-support, house, car, and other things are on the line, so I want to be sure I understand the risks involved.

Thank you very much.
PB

How exactly does one "formalize" a boyfriend/girlfrend relationship?

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Originally Posted by ceara19

How exactly does one "formalize" a boyfriend/girlfrend relationship?

My response:

You don't really want that answer, do you?

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