What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York. I am a fireman that has an accidental 3/4 disability pension and also get SS disability. I have a permanent disability will never work again. I am 52 years old and have been married for 29 years. My wife wants a divorce. I was put out of FDNY with 19 years. All my children are grown. She is a trained hairdresser for which I paid for her schooling. My question is what parts of my pension and SS is she entitled to.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?