What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? I live in California. My parents have been going through a nasty divorce for more than 7 years now. My dad wound up getting 50% of everything, 401K's & pension from my mom. The only thing is, is that she won't just split it up. She has a lawyer who had a firm do a QDRO to equally seperate everything, however supposedly my mother won't hand over the statements that go way back to the date of separation. She is trying to make this as difficult as possible. My father has no lawyer any more, it was just too expensive & he couldn't see himself spending all of what he was going to receive on lawyers fees. So at this point,my mom has fired her lawyer and wants another firm to redo the QDRO. Does anyone know what kind of recourse my father has at this point? Can this just go on forever? PLEASE HELP!!! Thanks so much!!!