treees4ever
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania
My divorce was complete in early Mar 08. It was an amicable/no-fault divorce with few issues. Per the terms of our separation agreement, I quit claimed the house deed to my ex and he assumed the mortgage in late April 08. Also per our sep agreement, he has until August 08 to pay me a certain equity sum. However, he verbally told me in April that it will not take him until August and said he had a loan lined up and pre-approved with his bank and it would move very quickly. About every other week, we talk and he gives me an update. Each time we speak he assures me everything is in the works and gives me a NEW estimate for when he will have the money. The last estimate he gave me was that he would have the money yesterday (which didn't happen) and he now claims it will be SOMETIME before July 11th. He claims he cannot get a specific date from his bank. He also refuses to go to his bank any day other than Friday to check on the status. He refuses to meet me at his bank and talk to them together. I'm starting to think he is not being honest and he seems to have suddenly turned bitter about the situation, which was not the case until now. He knows that I am in the process of purchasing another home and that the timing of this equity payment is something I need to know. Do I have a right to request proof that he actually took out a loan to pay me? Do I have a right to ask him for a statement from his bank that says he will have the money on such and such a date?
My divorce was complete in early Mar 08. It was an amicable/no-fault divorce with few issues. Per the terms of our separation agreement, I quit claimed the house deed to my ex and he assumed the mortgage in late April 08. Also per our sep agreement, he has until August 08 to pay me a certain equity sum. However, he verbally told me in April that it will not take him until August and said he had a loan lined up and pre-approved with his bank and it would move very quickly. About every other week, we talk and he gives me an update. Each time we speak he assures me everything is in the works and gives me a NEW estimate for when he will have the money. The last estimate he gave me was that he would have the money yesterday (which didn't happen) and he now claims it will be SOMETIME before July 11th. He claims he cannot get a specific date from his bank. He also refuses to go to his bank any day other than Friday to check on the status. He refuses to meet me at his bank and talk to them together. I'm starting to think he is not being honest and he seems to have suddenly turned bitter about the situation, which was not the case until now. He knows that I am in the process of purchasing another home and that the timing of this equity payment is something I need to know. Do I have a right to request proof that he actually took out a loan to pay me? Do I have a right to ask him for a statement from his bank that says he will have the money on such and such a date?