coloradocowgirl
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Colorado
My STBX and I have mediation next month - the county requires that we attend mediation before being given the option of going to trial; I have a few questions regarding mediation:
1) Is this going to be like a negotiation session, where I need to go in and ask for as much as I can really ask for, and then be willing to haggle? I have a parenting plan that, from what others have said, is more than fair to all parties involved. Should I just go in with that and hope for the best?
2) I am willing to come to a concensus. I have no idea what my STBX is going to ask for, but I am hopeful that we can come to a resolution without court. HOWEVER, I know my STBX fairly well, and he can be stubborn. If he comes to the mediation completely unwilling to budge on any point, will that get noted and sent to the judge we end up seeing? Will our behaviors during the mediation be noted (if he's really rude, demeaning, etc. will that get put in a report somewhere)?
3) How common is it for mediation to yield a positive result - in our case, a parenting plan we both can live with?
My STBX and I have mediation next month - the county requires that we attend mediation before being given the option of going to trial; I have a few questions regarding mediation:
1) Is this going to be like a negotiation session, where I need to go in and ask for as much as I can really ask for, and then be willing to haggle? I have a parenting plan that, from what others have said, is more than fair to all parties involved. Should I just go in with that and hope for the best?
2) I am willing to come to a concensus. I have no idea what my STBX is going to ask for, but I am hopeful that we can come to a resolution without court. HOWEVER, I know my STBX fairly well, and he can be stubborn. If he comes to the mediation completely unwilling to budge on any point, will that get noted and sent to the judge we end up seeing? Will our behaviors during the mediation be noted (if he's really rude, demeaning, etc. will that get put in a report somewhere)?
3) How common is it for mediation to yield a positive result - in our case, a parenting plan we both can live with?