Boogie9IGN
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Hey fellas,
So my parents are getting divorced and my dad enlisted a lawyer as a 'mediator' of sorts. He kind of sets down the settlements but doesn't represent any particular side, and in the case that my parents do decide to go to court, he cannot being enlisted as either side's counsel.
So my parents have a meeting with him next week and he sent my mom this email. She doesn't really understand what is being asked/said so I was wondering if someone could help me simplify it for her:
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1. The home. What is your plan? I understand that DAD probably wants to keep MOM and THE KIDS in the house for the near future, but for how long? Looks like there is about $250,000 in equity (at least for the present time). You have several options, depending on what your goals are.
a. you can defer sale conditioned on specified event, by time, or both
b. cross purchase the other's interest
c. sign over to the other subject to offsetting interest in another asset (like the deferred comp $).
2. City of Lazytown Pension: This is straightforward: QDRO (this is the acronym for the method to legally preserve the non participant's interest ) it now so that MOM gets her interest paid directly to her from now on.
3. Deferred Comp: Must be dealt with the same as the pension.
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So essentially we'd like someone to explain all those options to us, as we don't really understand them well and we'd like to know before the meeting so my dad can't try any funny business.
Hey fellas,
So my parents are getting divorced and my dad enlisted a lawyer as a 'mediator' of sorts. He kind of sets down the settlements but doesn't represent any particular side, and in the case that my parents do decide to go to court, he cannot being enlisted as either side's counsel.
So my parents have a meeting with him next week and he sent my mom this email. She doesn't really understand what is being asked/said so I was wondering if someone could help me simplify it for her:
---
1. The home. What is your plan? I understand that DAD probably wants to keep MOM and THE KIDS in the house for the near future, but for how long? Looks like there is about $250,000 in equity (at least for the present time). You have several options, depending on what your goals are.
a. you can defer sale conditioned on specified event, by time, or both
b. cross purchase the other's interest
c. sign over to the other subject to offsetting interest in another asset (like the deferred comp $).
2. City of Lazytown Pension: This is straightforward: QDRO (this is the acronym for the method to legally preserve the non participant's interest ) it now so that MOM gets her interest paid directly to her from now on.
3. Deferred Comp: Must be dealt with the same as the pension.
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So essentially we'd like someone to explain all those options to us, as we don't really understand them well and we'd like to know before the meeting so my dad can't try any funny business.