What is the name of your state? KY
My ex has fought every aspect of our divorce since 2005. You might remember he is STILL living on my land with his fiance and her kids even though the judge ruled he had to vacate by Dec. 2007.
Well, our teenager daughter tells me he sat her down and ranted and raved this weekend over the judge's ruling on our retirement. The judge ruled that our respective retirement funds are to be divided. Actually, the CO says "whoever has more on the date of the divorce will give the difference to the other." (Shouldn't it have said "whoever has more will give HALF the difference to the other?")
In 2006 my atty. advised me that my retirement (state) could not be touched in a divorce so that I was free to withdraw it when I was not rehired in my district. I was financially desperate at the time (obviously since, most of it was lost to taxes and penalties for early withdrawal.)
My ex refused to disclose his retirement amounts (He has a 401K and IRA.) After 6 months of his noncompliance my atty. finally did a QDRO (I think that's what it's called.) I haven't been informed of the amount yet, but it is significantly more than the $3,000 he originally claimed in court 2 years ago. My ex is insisting that I have $20,000. It was never that much. It was closer to $14,000 (before the IRS took much of it.) I now have zero in retirement as my part-time job with the state school board did not offer retirement.
My question is have you ever heard of a situation like this and what will likely happen? I know you cannot predict what a judge will do, but I don't know what the rules are in situations like this.
My ex has fought every aspect of our divorce since 2005. You might remember he is STILL living on my land with his fiance and her kids even though the judge ruled he had to vacate by Dec. 2007.
Well, our teenager daughter tells me he sat her down and ranted and raved this weekend over the judge's ruling on our retirement. The judge ruled that our respective retirement funds are to be divided. Actually, the CO says "whoever has more on the date of the divorce will give the difference to the other." (Shouldn't it have said "whoever has more will give HALF the difference to the other?")
In 2006 my atty. advised me that my retirement (state) could not be touched in a divorce so that I was free to withdraw it when I was not rehired in my district. I was financially desperate at the time (obviously since, most of it was lost to taxes and penalties for early withdrawal.)
My ex refused to disclose his retirement amounts (He has a 401K and IRA.) After 6 months of his noncompliance my atty. finally did a QDRO (I think that's what it's called.) I haven't been informed of the amount yet, but it is significantly more than the $3,000 he originally claimed in court 2 years ago. My ex is insisting that I have $20,000. It was never that much. It was closer to $14,000 (before the IRS took much of it.) I now have zero in retirement as my part-time job with the state school board did not offer retirement.
My question is have you ever heard of a situation like this and what will likely happen? I know you cannot predict what a judge will do, but I don't know what the rules are in situations like this.