What is the name of your state? California
My husband stated about 3 months ago he wanted a divorce. We continued to live in the same house while we are trying to sell it due to financial reasons. He started living his lifew as if he was single and I was a room mate. He is not taking a lot of responsibility or help when it comes to the kids and house. He comes and goes when he pleases and spends time with the kids when it is convienient for him. We have no separation papers filed or anything with the courts. My mom lives in Oregon and has offered for me and the kids to come up there to save up money and help me get back on my feet. I would like to know If I can since their are no papers filed and he won't give me permission to leave even when I offered to have the kids stay 3 months at a time with each parent. We have 2 kids together; 2 & 3. And I have a 12 year old from a previous marriage that he has been with for the last 5 1/2 years and now wants nothing to do with him because he isn't his. Even though my 12 yr. old father is not in the picture and my current husband helped raise him. I need to know can he charge me with anything if i leave for a year and come back and possible file for a divorce in Oregon.
My husband stated about 3 months ago he wanted a divorce. We continued to live in the same house while we are trying to sell it due to financial reasons. He started living his lifew as if he was single and I was a room mate. He is not taking a lot of responsibility or help when it comes to the kids and house. He comes and goes when he pleases and spends time with the kids when it is convienient for him. We have no separation papers filed or anything with the courts. My mom lives in Oregon and has offered for me and the kids to come up there to save up money and help me get back on my feet. I would like to know If I can since their are no papers filed and he won't give me permission to leave even when I offered to have the kids stay 3 months at a time with each parent. We have 2 kids together; 2 & 3. And I have a 12 year old from a previous marriage that he has been with for the last 5 1/2 years and now wants nothing to do with him because he isn't his. Even though my 12 yr. old father is not in the picture and my current husband helped raise him. I need to know can he charge me with anything if i leave for a year and come back and possible file for a divorce in Oregon.