What is the name of your state? North Carolina
I am a single female, never married. My question concerns my fiance and how his situation may affect us financially and legally. My fiance has been divorced since 2004 and was legally separated prior to that since 2000. His ex-wife initiated the entire divorce and therefore was the first to move on and the first to have a relationship. However, she is currently single and we have been dating for 3 years. I have a good amicable relationship w/the kids (ages 10 and 15) and I do not treat them as though I am their mother. The ex-wife/mother is irate that we have been dating this long and constantly thinks the worst of me and my intentions. My job recently transferred me out of the state but across the holidays I spent some time at my fiance's home - in the guest bedroom of course, as the children took turns staying there as well. The ex-wife/mother went ballistic when she found out, stating that she could "sue" because the separation agreement stated terms of their personal conduct, specifically no overnight guests of the opposite sex with the children present. Are those terms still in effect or are they null and void since the divorce is final and those terms were not included in the divorce? Please advise!!!!What is the name of your state?