edagenerkpa
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida
Since Google is everywhere and I'm pretty scared of my step dad I will not use names.
My mother has been seeing a guy for about 6 months when she married him, this was a little over 2 years ago. Since then things have been on a constant downward spiral, things have gotten pretty bad and worse. The house and vehicles (aside from mine) are in his name.
He has been emotionally abusive pretty consistantly over the 2 years, spends long periods of time away from home, and in general making things extremely unpleasant. He has driven off all of mom's friends and makes a lot of family not like to be around (I understand it is very typical of abusive and controlling men).
He also has a lot of connections of an unsavory variety. Dangerous people which my mom does not want to tempt. He seems to have kind of a reach because of that. When he gets mad he gets ballistic (throwing stuff around, causing a huge mess and I think he has hit mom on a few occasions but I have not witnessed it). This makes her scared of him and she thinks that she has no options other than give him what he wants (divorce seems inevitable) and hope that he goes away. Since the cars and house are in his name, she has pretty much nothing of real value in her name, and she is thinking about quitting her job in order to have access to her 401K (her job is not paying well anymore, it depends on commission and of course sales of everything are down).
I'm not sure how easy this is to follow, but if anyone has ANY help at all I would greatly appreciate it. I am worried sick about all this stuff for my mom and I would greatly appreciate any help anyone can provide. If you need more info I'll see what I can do.
Thanks.
Since Google is everywhere and I'm pretty scared of my step dad I will not use names.
My mother has been seeing a guy for about 6 months when she married him, this was a little over 2 years ago. Since then things have been on a constant downward spiral, things have gotten pretty bad and worse. The house and vehicles (aside from mine) are in his name.
He has been emotionally abusive pretty consistantly over the 2 years, spends long periods of time away from home, and in general making things extremely unpleasant. He has driven off all of mom's friends and makes a lot of family not like to be around (I understand it is very typical of abusive and controlling men).
He also has a lot of connections of an unsavory variety. Dangerous people which my mom does not want to tempt. He seems to have kind of a reach because of that. When he gets mad he gets ballistic (throwing stuff around, causing a huge mess and I think he has hit mom on a few occasions but I have not witnessed it). This makes her scared of him and she thinks that she has no options other than give him what he wants (divorce seems inevitable) and hope that he goes away. Since the cars and house are in his name, she has pretty much nothing of real value in her name, and she is thinking about quitting her job in order to have access to her 401K (her job is not paying well anymore, it depends on commission and of course sales of everything are down).
I'm not sure how easy this is to follow, but if anyone has ANY help at all I would greatly appreciate it. I am worried sick about all this stuff for my mom and I would greatly appreciate any help anyone can provide. If you need more info I'll see what I can do.
Thanks.