finallydone
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida
I've been married for 27 yrs; 6 children all grown. For the first 19 yrs I was the majjor breadwinner. We moved to FL in 2003 and together made the decision that I would not work. He's become increasingly cruel and violent over the past couple of yrs and really bad lately so I'm going to file for an injunction at the courthouse tomorrow. I've never filed charges or told anyone before bc I wanted to keep our family together. He is gay but denies it. Everytime I caught him he became violent—first a broken arm, lots of bruises and now I'm afraid of him. He was arrested for soliciting prostitution and exposing his genitals to a policeman in October2007. When I picked him up from jail and asked him how he could do such a thing he punched me in the head with his fist and it hit the car window. This July 4 when he caught me checking his cell phone he put horrible bruises on both arms , shoulder and back. Last Fri I told him I was done and I wanted him to help me find an apt for me and our daughter to live and he got in my face and try to shove me but our daughter grabbed the keys and we left. When we came back, as usual, he acted like nothing happened. He makes 72K. We have nothing bc he spends it on lunches, dinners, cars, and gaybars. I am beaten down so emotionally I don't function as a human being and I am getting out. If I use the 2500 in my bank account to move instead of for the rent, will a judge hold that against me? He has two credit cards, one 300 bal and one 500 bal that he thinks I don't know about; he pays min on those per month. One 362 car payment, one 158 car paym., 381 for car ins per month. Thats it beside rent and utilities. Can I get 2500 per month as spousal supprt until I can get well enough to work again? With promises of a fresh start after our home was foreclosed on, he talked me into signing a lease with him on a 2500 per month house. I want out; he can turn it in to a boarding house for other confused husbands if he wants. DO I have to live in a dump because I want out or can I ask for the support?
I've been married for 27 yrs; 6 children all grown. For the first 19 yrs I was the majjor breadwinner. We moved to FL in 2003 and together made the decision that I would not work. He's become increasingly cruel and violent over the past couple of yrs and really bad lately so I'm going to file for an injunction at the courthouse tomorrow. I've never filed charges or told anyone before bc I wanted to keep our family together. He is gay but denies it. Everytime I caught him he became violent—first a broken arm, lots of bruises and now I'm afraid of him. He was arrested for soliciting prostitution and exposing his genitals to a policeman in October2007. When I picked him up from jail and asked him how he could do such a thing he punched me in the head with his fist and it hit the car window. This July 4 when he caught me checking his cell phone he put horrible bruises on both arms , shoulder and back. Last Fri I told him I was done and I wanted him to help me find an apt for me and our daughter to live and he got in my face and try to shove me but our daughter grabbed the keys and we left. When we came back, as usual, he acted like nothing happened. He makes 72K. We have nothing bc he spends it on lunches, dinners, cars, and gaybars. I am beaten down so emotionally I don't function as a human being and I am getting out. If I use the 2500 in my bank account to move instead of for the rent, will a judge hold that against me? He has two credit cards, one 300 bal and one 500 bal that he thinks I don't know about; he pays min on those per month. One 362 car payment, one 158 car paym., 381 for car ins per month. Thats it beside rent and utilities. Can I get 2500 per month as spousal supprt until I can get well enough to work again? With promises of a fresh start after our home was foreclosed on, he talked me into signing a lease with him on a 2500 per month house. I want out; he can turn it in to a boarding house for other confused husbands if he wants. DO I have to live in a dump because I want out or can I ask for the support?