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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
We're in virginia. I had been dating my fiance for some time when he had gotten in trouble with a dui and did some time. He broke up with me thinking I wouldn't be there for him all the while getting conned into a relationship with his now wife. After getting out of jail and getting back together she suceeded in breaking us up several times with several scams and cons resulting in them getting married. They've been married for 2 yrs now but they've only been together for a couple months all together. She even told him she was pregnant and she had had a hysterectomy several years prior. He's a sucker for kids and she used her to keep him. He doesn't have any biological ones. Anyway, after this last time he had enough and was adament about getting divorced. We've been back together for a little over a year and a half and they only contact he had had with her was when they first seperated and she told him she wanted a divorce so that she could move on with her life. Well, we finally got the money up to start but we couldn't find her. We sent the papers to her po box and wished for the best. Rumor had it she had gotten them and she didn't want to sign then because she still loved him. He wants out. Well, he got a call from her daughter asking him to talk to her mother and so he went. This was like 12 o'clock at night. She never told him she actually got the papers but she made references to them. They talked for several hours and since it was so late and it had been raining he spent the night on her couch. I believe him whole heartedly when he says that nothing happened. However, she told him that she would say that he stayed there. My question is does he have to start all over again with waiting for the divorce. He doesn't live with her. We're planning on moving to the town next to us and start a family that should have been started already. He thought about just putting it in the paper instead of sending a sherriff to serve her papers because she's likely to lie. Like i said she the biggest con artist I have ever met. She even went to the looney bin just so she could get on disability so she would not have to work. She had previously lived off the check her daughter recieved from her daddy's death. We would really like to be rid of her. I need some advice.
We're in virginia. I had been dating my fiance for some time when he had gotten in trouble with a dui and did some time. He broke up with me thinking I wouldn't be there for him all the while getting conned into a relationship with his now wife. After getting out of jail and getting back together she suceeded in breaking us up several times with several scams and cons resulting in them getting married. They've been married for 2 yrs now but they've only been together for a couple months all together. She even told him she was pregnant and she had had a hysterectomy several years prior. He's a sucker for kids and she used her to keep him. He doesn't have any biological ones. Anyway, after this last time he had enough and was adament about getting divorced. We've been back together for a little over a year and a half and they only contact he had had with her was when they first seperated and she told him she wanted a divorce so that she could move on with her life. Well, we finally got the money up to start but we couldn't find her. We sent the papers to her po box and wished for the best. Rumor had it she had gotten them and she didn't want to sign then because she still loved him. He wants out. Well, he got a call from her daughter asking him to talk to her mother and so he went. This was like 12 o'clock at night. She never told him she actually got the papers but she made references to them. They talked for several hours and since it was so late and it had been raining he spent the night on her couch. I believe him whole heartedly when he says that nothing happened. However, she told him that she would say that he stayed there. My question is does he have to start all over again with waiting for the divorce. He doesn't live with her. We're planning on moving to the town next to us and start a family that should have been started already. He thought about just putting it in the paper instead of sending a sherriff to serve her papers because she's likely to lie. Like i said she the biggest con artist I have ever met. She even went to the looney bin just so she could get on disability so she would not have to work. She had previously lived off the check her daughter recieved from her daddy's death. We would really like to be rid of her. I need some advice.
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