What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Texas.
I am in the process of an ugly divorce. My husband cheated on me numerous times starting two years into the marriage. I don't even want to explain my thinking as to why I stayed. Anyway, after finding out he cheated over and over I went to the doctor to get tested for everything. Never in my records does it show I was tested for HSV2 until I specifically requested to be tested a year ago last April. I was positive. I knew I had never cheated on my husband, but I had tons of proof he had, so I asked him over and over to get tested. My attorneys office chose to submit to the courts that he gave me this. A year and a half into it, my spouse finally got tested once and came up negative! Now my attorney is dropping me like a hot potatoe saying we can all be sued for slander, so my best bet is to give him whatever he wants. He is making ridiculous demands that have NO benefit to my kids and seem to be a tool for him to be vindictive. What are the chances that he could actually win a slander suit against me or my attorneys office? I had told my attorney when I found out I had this that the doctor had said I could have had this since before I ever met my husband, but they presumed he was guilty since he refused to get tested for so long. I wouldn't think the legal system is so backwards that with all the evidence of cheating I have on him, his inability to follow court orders, and the fact that he is living with a girlfriend in another state would allow us to go in front of a judge to have this divorce finalized in a fair manner. Isn't the threat of suing me and my attorneys office for slander a mockery since I did not throw it out there to hurt him, but rather to see what my own rights were? It was not an intentional lie or stretch to injure his reputation, but rather to seek the truth.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I am in the process of an ugly divorce. My husband cheated on me numerous times starting two years into the marriage. I don't even want to explain my thinking as to why I stayed. Anyway, after finding out he cheated over and over I went to the doctor to get tested for everything. Never in my records does it show I was tested for HSV2 until I specifically requested to be tested a year ago last April. I was positive. I knew I had never cheated on my husband, but I had tons of proof he had, so I asked him over and over to get tested. My attorneys office chose to submit to the courts that he gave me this. A year and a half into it, my spouse finally got tested once and came up negative! Now my attorney is dropping me like a hot potatoe saying we can all be sued for slander, so my best bet is to give him whatever he wants. He is making ridiculous demands that have NO benefit to my kids and seem to be a tool for him to be vindictive. What are the chances that he could actually win a slander suit against me or my attorneys office? I had told my attorney when I found out I had this that the doctor had said I could have had this since before I ever met my husband, but they presumed he was guilty since he refused to get tested for so long. I wouldn't think the legal system is so backwards that with all the evidence of cheating I have on him, his inability to follow court orders, and the fact that he is living with a girlfriend in another state would allow us to go in front of a judge to have this divorce finalized in a fair manner. Isn't the threat of suing me and my attorneys office for slander a mockery since I did not throw it out there to hurt him, but rather to see what my own rights were? It was not an intentional lie or stretch to injure his reputation, but rather to seek the truth.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?