Thanks for the update Mom.
Yes, if he gets divorced he will, depending on his rank, have to move into the barracks. From what I can figure, he's new to the military and probably an E-1 or E-2 at best. That's not a bad thing. Even if he does lose his "married entitlement" he can still save some $$$$$$.
As for going AWOL; not only will he have a divorce to worry about but there's a place called Levenworth that he'll have to contend with. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE....advise him not to go AWOL. He will end up having military punishment brought against him. He signed an enlistment and he has to serve that, or he can go about getting out the proper way. At best he'll receive an Article 15 (non-judicial punishment and loss of rank) and at worst a prison sentence at Levenworth. Now, with that being said, he does have a first sergeant who can help him, as well as a chaplain on post. I have a DSN or military system phone number and he can call me to talk about this. I've been in the Air Force 14 years and would truly hate to see another member of my military family go down because of a relationship gone bad. How old is your son? Email me privately at
[email protected] and I'll give you the number. Again, please let him know that he need not be embarassed about what he's going through and there are people out here who care and will help him.
I re-married, after 4 years of being divorced, just 3 weeks ago and I'm looking at a 6 month deployment very soon. I know stress and how to deal with it.
Any and all help that I can offer your son I'll be more than glad to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hang in there Mom and all will work out!!!!