still confused

[amandas]

What is the name of your state? california
Ok now I'm really confused.....
I don't have anything that says "proof of service" or a signature. I received a copy of the file in the mail. He said he has the originals and mailed in the POS papers. If I don't have a copy of the POS papers can I get one? Am I supposed to receive only copies? I feel so stupid right now. I can't afford an attorney but I know I can get free advice from the courthouse.
I am NOT contesting the dissolution and we have agreed upon all the possesions we are splitting. I just don't want to default and screw myself. As long as being in default means that I'm not contesting anything and we agreed I'm ok.
ALSo, Does it make a difference on what he put down as the date of separation and what the real date is?
Thanks for your help....please don't fight over this one.

[Blue Meanie]

bump**************......I am just bumping the thread to the top of the list..

[Ohiogal]

Originally Posted by amandas

What is the name of your state? california
Ok now I'm really confused.....
I don't have anything that says "proof of service" or a signature. I received a copy of the file in the mail. He said he has the originals and mailed in the POS papers. If I don't have a copy of the POS papers can I get one? Am I supposed to receive only copies? I feel so stupid right now. I can't afford an attorney but I know I can get free advice from the courthouse.
I am NOT contesting the dissolution and we have agreed upon all the possesions we are splitting. I just don't want to default and screw myself. As long as being in default means that I'm not contesting anything and we agreed I'm ok.
ALSo, Does it make a difference on what he put down as the date of separation and what the real date is?
Thanks for your help....please don't fight over this one.

Who is he? And don't say I should check all your other threads. Not my job. The POS papers should show at the courthouse and be in the original file. The court would also show when they are received on the docket which you may be able to access online.