wolfthing2000
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? oregon
I have a hearing again next week for support decision in pending divorce. She originaly last February decided she didn't want support, just medical coverage, the support would knock down her Social Security Disability moneys that she recieves. That made the divorce an arbitration proceedings and moved it out of court.
In July her attorney called for a hearing then for support, moving the divorce back to court, but she decided in the court room that she didn't want it because of the loss of the SSI moneys. The Judge moved it back to arbitration and told her side that this should be worked out using our attorneys. I have a stack of settlement offers numbering dozens that they have never replied fully to. I proposed selling the property in risk of foreclosure last March.
Once again her attorney has moved it to court and a support hearing.
She is also wanting to have me pay a mortgage that I can't afford. I currently pay the mortgage on the primary residence that I live in , she was asked to move out via retraining order due to domestic violence, she then moved in with her mother. She payed the disputed mortgage until last month and now refuses to pay it.
She wants 1100 dollars pr month for the mortgage payment.
She wants 1500 dollars a month for support
She wants an immediate 5,000 dollar payment to pay a credit card bill that was in our names and charges made before divorce filing.
We had always filed joint returns for years and structured payroll deductions accordingly. She filed married seperate on tax returns potentialy dis-allowing me deductions and left me with what looks to be a 4700 dollar tax debt.
I make close to 4,000 per month but after paying her insurance through payroll deduction , taxes and loan on a 401k, I bring home only 2,000.
She works part time and with the SSI makes about the same (2000) clear.
Her Uniform Support Affidavit is based on hypothetical expenses (ie: she writes: " This is what my expenses would be if I had to live on my own")
Anyone want to take a fair guess of whart the judge might do this time around?
I have a hearing again next week for support decision in pending divorce. She originaly last February decided she didn't want support, just medical coverage, the support would knock down her Social Security Disability moneys that she recieves. That made the divorce an arbitration proceedings and moved it out of court.
In July her attorney called for a hearing then for support, moving the divorce back to court, but she decided in the court room that she didn't want it because of the loss of the SSI moneys. The Judge moved it back to arbitration and told her side that this should be worked out using our attorneys. I have a stack of settlement offers numbering dozens that they have never replied fully to. I proposed selling the property in risk of foreclosure last March.
Once again her attorney has moved it to court and a support hearing.
She is also wanting to have me pay a mortgage that I can't afford. I currently pay the mortgage on the primary residence that I live in , she was asked to move out via retraining order due to domestic violence, she then moved in with her mother. She payed the disputed mortgage until last month and now refuses to pay it.
She wants 1100 dollars pr month for the mortgage payment.
She wants 1500 dollars a month for support
She wants an immediate 5,000 dollar payment to pay a credit card bill that was in our names and charges made before divorce filing.
We had always filed joint returns for years and structured payroll deductions accordingly. She filed married seperate on tax returns potentialy dis-allowing me deductions and left me with what looks to be a 4700 dollar tax debt.
I make close to 4,000 per month but after paying her insurance through payroll deduction , taxes and loan on a 401k, I bring home only 2,000.
She works part time and with the SSI makes about the same (2000) clear.
Her Uniform Support Affidavit is based on hypothetical expenses (ie: she writes: " This is what my expenses would be if I had to live on my own")
Anyone want to take a fair guess of whart the judge might do this time around?