threats of restraining order

[sbarcelos]

I live in CA and my husband and I are in the process of divorce. We went to mediation today for our children and we did not agree on a visitation schedule. Can he fight me on moving out of the county w/ our kids? He said he's taking me to court over it and he also said he's filing a restraining order against me. For what? I don't know. I don't "ever" call him and we hardly see each other unless it's when he picks/drops off the kids. What do you need to be able to file a restraining order? I think he's losing it. I have asked the courts to get him to go to anger management classes before they award him joint legal custody. Can that happen? I really need advice on what to do to protect myself. I have no means to get an attorney to fight him on any of these issues.

 

[stealth2]

Yes, he can fight you on moving the kids. That may well be what the restraining order is about - restraining you from removing the children from the state/county/town they currently reside in.