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I live in Illinois and have been pursuing my divorce for 18 months.
Question one is in regards to whether or not I am still legally married since we have "proven grounds" at a grounds hearing 10 months ago. My attorney says that I am sort of not married, but I am still unclear about this.
Question two is in regards to a law or some sort of protection for the person pursuing a divorce in relation to a time limit. The reason I ask is the my soon to be ex is telling me that every time I provide something, he and his attorney will ask for something else until I collapse under the stress and debt associated with all of thelegal fees. I am currently approaching 7,000 for fees and we have not even attempted to write up a settlement agreement.
I requested of my attorney to drop child support and settle as we are with the property as divided. He refused and is telling me I have to keep basically playing this game and providing what they want. The problem is that I just can't afford this and it is starting to emotionally and physically drain me at the same time.
We have four children the oldest being 12 and my soon to be ex is trying to dredge up anything that we keep him from paying support. Currently I receive 100 dollars per week, which he feels is an extreme amount. He currently earns 12 dollars an hour and does get overtime. He has a business on the side but claims no income from it. I have a very good job and took over the business we were in as a couple and the majority of the debt.
They are now pursuing criminal charges in regards to how I managed the business during the time he was still on a a partner.
They know and I know that I have not done anything illegal but they are still pursuing me anyway.
I just want this to be over and advice?
Question one is in regards to whether or not I am still legally married since we have "proven grounds" at a grounds hearing 10 months ago. My attorney says that I am sort of not married, but I am still unclear about this.
Question two is in regards to a law or some sort of protection for the person pursuing a divorce in relation to a time limit. The reason I ask is the my soon to be ex is telling me that every time I provide something, he and his attorney will ask for something else until I collapse under the stress and debt associated with all of thelegal fees. I am currently approaching 7,000 for fees and we have not even attempted to write up a settlement agreement.
I requested of my attorney to drop child support and settle as we are with the property as divided. He refused and is telling me I have to keep basically playing this game and providing what they want. The problem is that I just can't afford this and it is starting to emotionally and physically drain me at the same time.
We have four children the oldest being 12 and my soon to be ex is trying to dredge up anything that we keep him from paying support. Currently I receive 100 dollars per week, which he feels is an extreme amount. He currently earns 12 dollars an hour and does get overtime. He has a business on the side but claims no income from it. I have a very good job and took over the business we were in as a couple and the majority of the debt.
They are now pursuing criminal charges in regards to how I managed the business during the time he was still on a a partner.
They know and I know that I have not done anything illegal but they are still pursuing me anyway.
I just want this to be over and advice?