totalimpact
Junior Member
State: Cali.
I have been seperated from my wife of 2 years for a few months, and we have been meaning to get a divroce, but her being away in the military has kind of delayed it. We are still good friends, and in complete agreement as far as our future and assets. The thing that has caused a major problem is her since becoming pregnant with another man.
The navy would see this as adultery and would punish her, after some research she found out she could spend a month or more in the brigg, loose rank and a lot of pay. We both agreed that wouldnt be good. If she stays married to me and nothing is said the baby will be born with my name and I will sign the birth certificate - this is what I dont want. If I divorce her they will want a paternity test to verify who the real father is before the birth certificate can be signed, and they will find out what really happened.
My first question is: is there anyway to keep my name off the child and not get her into big trouble with the Navy. (I think the answer is no)
Second: If I get the divorce after the child is born - how long will this take?
Third: should I file a legal seperation right now, and will this in anyway cause need for a paternity test.
I have been seperated from my wife of 2 years for a few months, and we have been meaning to get a divroce, but her being away in the military has kind of delayed it. We are still good friends, and in complete agreement as far as our future and assets. The thing that has caused a major problem is her since becoming pregnant with another man.
The navy would see this as adultery and would punish her, after some research she found out she could spend a month or more in the brigg, loose rank and a lot of pay. We both agreed that wouldnt be good. If she stays married to me and nothing is said the baby will be born with my name and I will sign the birth certificate - this is what I dont want. If I divorce her they will want a paternity test to verify who the real father is before the birth certificate can be signed, and they will find out what really happened.
My first question is: is there anyway to keep my name off the child and not get her into big trouble with the Navy. (I think the answer is no)
Second: If I get the divorce after the child is born - how long will this take?
Third: should I file a legal seperation right now, and will this in anyway cause need for a paternity test.
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