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Jetter
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What is the name of your state? California
I have lived with my boyfriend (husband?) for almost 15 years. Recently I found out about several incidents of infidelity. He's also started going to strip clubs & spending $100.00 plus on lap dances (he says that's all he's paying for, anyway). He's also become verbally abusive lately. I can't live like this anymore!!! I have invested a lot of time, emotion & money in this relationship, am I entitled to anything if I leave? Most of our assets are in his name, as my credit isn't great, though I do pay most of the houeshold expenses (i.e. phone, utilities, food, etc...). We also own a house, a boat & several cars, all of which are solely in his name (except one of the cars, my name is also on that one). Am I totally screwed if I leave? is there anything I can do so I don't have to start over from scratch?
I have lived with my boyfriend (husband?) for almost 15 years. Recently I found out about several incidents of infidelity. He's also started going to strip clubs & spending $100.00 plus on lap dances (he says that's all he's paying for, anyway). He's also become verbally abusive lately. I can't live like this anymore!!! I have invested a lot of time, emotion & money in this relationship, am I entitled to anything if I leave? Most of our assets are in his name, as my credit isn't great, though I do pay most of the houeshold expenses (i.e. phone, utilities, food, etc...). We also own a house, a boat & several cars, all of which are solely in his name (except one of the cars, my name is also on that one). Am I totally screwed if I leave? is there anything I can do so I don't have to start over from scratch?