mauraoc123
Junior Member
My husband and I are Virginia residents, in our early 50s, married 12 years, with an 11 year old child. He retired recently, and things are unraveling.
We have both aways worked, he retired with a traditional pension plus signifigant savings in a 401K. He made 60 - 85K while working, I make 45K.
If we did divorce, what could I expect in terms of support, childcare or part of his pension/401K? The pension and 401K benefits accrued over 31 years; we've been married for 12.
I'm not expecting to the penny answers, just general guidelines, something to figure out what kind of lifestyle we could each expect on our own.
We have both aways worked, he retired with a traditional pension plus signifigant savings in a 401K. He made 60 - 85K while working, I make 45K.
If we did divorce, what could I expect in terms of support, childcare or part of his pension/401K? The pension and 401K benefits accrued over 31 years; we've been married for 12.
I'm not expecting to the penny answers, just general guidelines, something to figure out what kind of lifestyle we could each expect on our own.