What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? New York
Hello Everyone.
I'm currently in a situation with my wife that I will most likely be broaching the topic of separation very soon. We have a 2 year old son whom we both love dearly. My wife is currently a stay at home mother.
Here is my question. After the discussion of Separation happens, staying in the same house will prove to be very akward, and most likely not create a very happy environment for our child, which is important to me does not happen. I know not having Daddy around will be a shock, but it will be better than him sensning all the rest of what will come. Thats besides the point, anyway...
In light of the fact that my wife is a stay at home mother and will need to seek employment at some point, I know she will need the current apartment we have. I have plenty of friends who are willing to put me up for a while. I will be able to pay for the apartment for another month or so since I will be crashing at a friends place. Although I need to know if this would be considered abandonment. God knows thats not what i'm trying or want to do.
What is normally done between the time that a separation is discussed and a serparation agreement is reached and made legal? Does the couple still stay in the same residence as previous? Is it okay for one to crash at anothers place until the agreement is reached, and alternative living arrangements can be arranged?
I LOVE my child, and don't hate my wife. Although I dont' think that being so close to eachother will be a good thing after we discuss separation. But I don't want my actions to be viewed as abondoment. Any advice?
Regards,
Franklin
Hello Everyone.
I'm currently in a situation with my wife that I will most likely be broaching the topic of separation very soon. We have a 2 year old son whom we both love dearly. My wife is currently a stay at home mother.
Here is my question. After the discussion of Separation happens, staying in the same house will prove to be very akward, and most likely not create a very happy environment for our child, which is important to me does not happen. I know not having Daddy around will be a shock, but it will be better than him sensning all the rest of what will come. Thats besides the point, anyway...
In light of the fact that my wife is a stay at home mother and will need to seek employment at some point, I know she will need the current apartment we have. I have plenty of friends who are willing to put me up for a while. I will be able to pay for the apartment for another month or so since I will be crashing at a friends place. Although I need to know if this would be considered abandonment. God knows thats not what i'm trying or want to do.
What is normally done between the time that a separation is discussed and a serparation agreement is reached and made legal? Does the couple still stay in the same residence as previous? Is it okay for one to crash at anothers place until the agreement is reached, and alternative living arrangements can be arranged?
I LOVE my child, and don't hate my wife. Although I dont' think that being so close to eachother will be a good thing after we discuss separation. But I don't want my actions to be viewed as abondoment. Any advice?
Regards,
Franklin