What is the name of your state? CA, but ok my current bf married back at the end of 2001 hes in the military and wed while he was on leave he wed in Texas came back to California to continue his activy duty and basically never heard from his wife again so hes obviously moved on to me Hes not divorced and has no clue where his "wife" is what should he do?? Last he heard she left to Mexico and have no intention on returning to the states we really wanna get married but dont know what one does in this case, help!!!