radio_flyer
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC
I am unhappy in my marriage and looking to the future when I can end it. We have some credit card debt that I am working had to pay off now, so no debt will come with me. The issue is this house. We bought it 6 months ago, just before the economy tanked. We only put 3% down, and I feel like we probably owe more than the house is worth at this point. If we were able to sell it in this market, we'd still owe the bank money. Now, I can afford to keep it on just my salary, while he could not, and I want to protect my credit. Could I ask him to leave and just walk away even? I know he would get half the equity, but there is none.
Or, should I save money for a down payment for a new house (in an account in a friend's name), leave him and the house, get my separation paper's, buy the new house, then hand the keys to this house to the mortage company? I know my credit would take the hit, but what else could happen to me? Could they force me to pay on the first house? Could they take the 2nd house?
I'm trying to figure out which path will work out the best and I hope ya'll can help give me insight. Thanks!
I am unhappy in my marriage and looking to the future when I can end it. We have some credit card debt that I am working had to pay off now, so no debt will come with me. The issue is this house. We bought it 6 months ago, just before the economy tanked. We only put 3% down, and I feel like we probably owe more than the house is worth at this point. If we were able to sell it in this market, we'd still owe the bank money. Now, I can afford to keep it on just my salary, while he could not, and I want to protect my credit. Could I ask him to leave and just walk away even? I know he would get half the equity, but there is none.
Or, should I save money for a down payment for a new house (in an account in a friend's name), leave him and the house, get my separation paper's, buy the new house, then hand the keys to this house to the mortage company? I know my credit would take the hit, but what else could happen to me? Could they force me to pay on the first house? Could they take the 2nd house?
I'm trying to figure out which path will work out the best and I hope ya'll can help give me insight. Thanks!