divorcesucks
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I am very confused on how to proceed with my divorce. my husband and i have 2 young children. he has been emotionally abusing me for 8 years, but believe it or not is actually a good father. participates in there lives and does not harrass me in front of them. he is paranoid and i have reached my breaking point. i have filed and served the divorce papers. he is having a hard time accepting this and has been waking me up in the middle of the night to accuse me of everything from A-Z. I want him to leave our home (which is in his name, but I have been paying the mortgage on for 2 years). The only way I know to get him to leave is to file a restraining order, but this involves the children and I am trying to keep them out of this. Divorce is hard enough as it is without ripping their father away from them. I don't think he will leave the home without force, but I also don't want to drag him through the mud.
Should I obtain a lawyer to help me work this out and clarify why he needs to go, yet still be a part of his kids lives. He has never abused them in any way, but emotionally has been horrible to me. This process is hard and confusing. Also is this house considered community property. He bought the home 2 days before we were married and we were together 5 years before that. Do I have the legal right to ask him to leave? Any Advice? Thank You : )
I am very confused on how to proceed with my divorce. my husband and i have 2 young children. he has been emotionally abusing me for 8 years, but believe it or not is actually a good father. participates in there lives and does not harrass me in front of them. he is paranoid and i have reached my breaking point. i have filed and served the divorce papers. he is having a hard time accepting this and has been waking me up in the middle of the night to accuse me of everything from A-Z. I want him to leave our home (which is in his name, but I have been paying the mortgage on for 2 years). The only way I know to get him to leave is to file a restraining order, but this involves the children and I am trying to keep them out of this. Divorce is hard enough as it is without ripping their father away from them. I don't think he will leave the home without force, but I also don't want to drag him through the mud.
Should I obtain a lawyer to help me work this out and clarify why he needs to go, yet still be a part of his kids lives. He has never abused them in any way, but emotionally has been horrible to me. This process is hard and confusing. Also is this house considered community property. He bought the home 2 days before we were married and we were together 5 years before that. Do I have the legal right to ask him to leave? Any Advice? Thank You : )