What is the name of your state? Kansas
My husband told me that he wanted a divorce and was going to keep the kids and the house and that I needed to find somewhere to live. I never saw it coming and I still don't want a divorce. Well, I had talked to a few divorced people and they said that in their case at least, whoever filed first would get to keep the house and kids if they asked for them in the temporary order, at least during the themporary order stage. So, I got scared and filed first and was allowed to stay in the home with my kids and he had to move out within 24 hrs of being served. My questions are.....
1. Since I filed first but still don't want this divorce, what would happen if when we go to court I tell the judge that I don't want it?
2. Since he does want this divorce, can he then take the kids and make me leave the house?
3. Any chance of getting the judge to order marriage counseling before granting this divorce since we never tried it(he refused), we have been married almost 15 years?
4. We have 4 vehicles and the only one that is running is the truck that he took with him that we are still paying for for another 3 years. Any chance that the judge will make him provide me with a running vehicle to transport the kids in?
My husband told me that he wanted a divorce and was going to keep the kids and the house and that I needed to find somewhere to live. I never saw it coming and I still don't want a divorce. Well, I had talked to a few divorced people and they said that in their case at least, whoever filed first would get to keep the house and kids if they asked for them in the temporary order, at least during the themporary order stage. So, I got scared and filed first and was allowed to stay in the home with my kids and he had to move out within 24 hrs of being served. My questions are.....
1. Since I filed first but still don't want this divorce, what would happen if when we go to court I tell the judge that I don't want it?
2. Since he does want this divorce, can he then take the kids and make me leave the house?
3. Any chance of getting the judge to order marriage counseling before granting this divorce since we never tried it(he refused), we have been married almost 15 years?
4. We have 4 vehicles and the only one that is running is the truck that he took with him that we are still paying for for another 3 years. Any chance that the judge will make him provide me with a running vehicle to transport the kids in?