What is the name of your state? Connecticut
I'm approaching the "zero hour" of filing for divorce. It's been 9 years of marriage...the last 3 of which have been nothing but distance and complete emotional detachment.
For the past year, I've gotten close to a female friend whom I've grown to love and adore with all my heart. We haven't done anything questionable up to this point simply because of my current marital situation.
I'm not getting a divorce "for" or because of this other woman. But I know that the divorce my drag out for a long time depending on how my wife reacts to the whole thing. I know she's prepared for it to a certain extent, but not sure what her overall demeanor will be (combative, cooperative or otherwise).
My question is, at what point am I free to be with someone else without having it possibly be used against me? I'm not even sure if there's a definate answer, but was curious.
Thanks in advance...
I'm approaching the "zero hour" of filing for divorce. It's been 9 years of marriage...the last 3 of which have been nothing but distance and complete emotional detachment.
For the past year, I've gotten close to a female friend whom I've grown to love and adore with all my heart. We haven't done anything questionable up to this point simply because of my current marital situation.
I'm not getting a divorce "for" or because of this other woman. But I know that the divorce my drag out for a long time depending on how my wife reacts to the whole thing. I know she's prepared for it to a certain extent, but not sure what her overall demeanor will be (combative, cooperative or otherwise).
My question is, at what point am I free to be with someone else without having it possibly be used against me? I'm not even sure if there's a definate answer, but was curious.
Thanks in advance...
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