I only know about California so you will have to waitiuntil expert in your state shows up. Here you can bifurcate the divorce action. That means you can get a divorce very quickly (and temporary alimony)but the other side-Reserved Issues (money, alimony, property division,etc. )can go on for almost forever. Well, years anyway if there are continuances and changes of attorneys. There will be at least 2 court-ordered mediations. If no progress then there will be a trial. Try not to go down that road. The mediators are very good and will help you find an equitable solution. Equitable means no one is happy but no one gets shafted either.