What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CT
My wife has been having an affair with an ex-police officer who (guess) has experience in domestic abuse. During the past 3 months I have been doing everything I can to find out the nature of the relationship and to put pressure on her and bring her into reality (she still even with written proof denies she is even having one) to end the affair. The other man has convinced her to gather evidence to support that I am emotional abusing her and stalking her.
1. I have send an anonymous (untraceable) text message calling her a liar - she reported that to the police.
2. After I exposed the affair to her friends and family (which she said was illegal) she told are children(13/14) that daddy was saying mean things about mommy and tracking her. I decided to tell the children the truth about the affair (they already suspected) and they confronted her with me there later that day. The next day she reported that to the police as child abuse and threatened to bring DCF in.
3. After she took $20,000 out of our family's account as safe keeping for a divorce money into a personal account she opened, I ran down to the bank and she saw me (same shopping center where she and the other man park in the back parking lot to fool around when she drops my kids off for their workout) when I was going to close out bank account. She called the police saying I was stalking her.
4. I found out about the affair with a keylogger on a shared home family computer, is that illegal?
5. I develop GPS tracking software and have used it (again in our shared family car) to track her off and on when she has gone to his house or met him in the park.
Other than her word she has no proof of any of these I have done.
My real question is am I at risk if I confront her with the OM or is any of these things considered illegal.
Thank you.
My wife has been having an affair with an ex-police officer who (guess) has experience in domestic abuse. During the past 3 months I have been doing everything I can to find out the nature of the relationship and to put pressure on her and bring her into reality (she still even with written proof denies she is even having one) to end the affair. The other man has convinced her to gather evidence to support that I am emotional abusing her and stalking her.
1. I have send an anonymous (untraceable) text message calling her a liar - she reported that to the police.
2. After I exposed the affair to her friends and family (which she said was illegal) she told are children(13/14) that daddy was saying mean things about mommy and tracking her. I decided to tell the children the truth about the affair (they already suspected) and they confronted her with me there later that day. The next day she reported that to the police as child abuse and threatened to bring DCF in.
3. After she took $20,000 out of our family's account as safe keeping for a divorce money into a personal account she opened, I ran down to the bank and she saw me (same shopping center where she and the other man park in the back parking lot to fool around when she drops my kids off for their workout) when I was going to close out bank account. She called the police saying I was stalking her.
4. I found out about the affair with a keylogger on a shared home family computer, is that illegal?
5. I develop GPS tracking software and have used it (again in our shared family car) to track her off and on when she has gone to his house or met him in the park.
Other than her word she has no proof of any of these I have done.
My real question is am I at risk if I confront her with the OM or is any of these things considered illegal.
Thank you.