Wife left 51/2 months ago to find herself.

[Treker48]

What is the name of your state? Maryland

My wife left 51/2 months ago to find where, who and what she may want. I am not sure about this whole thing of seperation/divorce she has told everyone dicorce is not an option for her she just needs time to sort things out. But she has moved in with a guy and his mother and I think 2 more friends should I take her word that she is still looking for an answer or be worried. I have been trying to talk to her and convince her to talk about our problems and her problems but she says she is not ready for that now. What can I do?

 

[AHA]

Nevermind what she wants, what do YOU want?

If she's living with another guy, she's obviously not finding herself. She's finding a new bedpal. Do you want to be screwed over like that by someone who obviously doesn't give a rat's behind about your feelings?
If she's been gone for 6 months already, what's to say she has any intentions of ever coming back to you?

I'd dissolve this union and move on with my life if I were you. It's all about how much self respect you have.