i live in new york and have not seen my wife in 15 years. did a search with her ss# to get an address to serve divorce papers but found out shes using a different name (must be her- just changed first letter of her maiden name. how can i serve the papers to her in florida if shes not using the right name and i have no picture to send to the process servers. please help. i'm at my wits end with this. wanted to remarry in august and only have 3 monthe left on my index number( her family was going to send the papers but decided not to after i had purchased it). thank you in advance to anyone who can help.