What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
My ex's mom is giving me the worst run-around over what should be the most simplest divorce.
My ex and I were together for 3 months married before I left him, and when I did he got out of the navy and returned to texas. Even though there was no animosity between us, he felt it necessary to remove all my ways of contacting him. All I had was his parent's address.
So, 3 years later and still no word, I decide to file for divorce papers, but I can't find any way to contact him, so I write to his mother quite recently to ask his address.
First she tells me: "Your marriage was void, he's been married since February. Carry on with your life!"
So then she tells me the next day, "Oh actuallyt he marriage wasn't void, send me the divorce papers. I'll have him sign them."
I told her no, I needed his address, so I could have them properly served. She kept refusing to give me his address and now has told me he's NOT married, and that if I want a divorce I have to go through her. (lol)
So my question is: What am I allowed to do to get his address from her?
If I call their local sheriff, would they be able to get it? Or should I just serve him through a publication? I do not have the money for hassles, and honestly our divorce should be one of the more simple ones, since we have no kids and no debts or anything owned together.
Thanks~
My ex's mom is giving me the worst run-around over what should be the most simplest divorce.
My ex and I were together for 3 months married before I left him, and when I did he got out of the navy and returned to texas. Even though there was no animosity between us, he felt it necessary to remove all my ways of contacting him. All I had was his parent's address.
So, 3 years later and still no word, I decide to file for divorce papers, but I can't find any way to contact him, so I write to his mother quite recently to ask his address.
First she tells me: "Your marriage was void, he's been married since February. Carry on with your life!"
So then she tells me the next day, "Oh actuallyt he marriage wasn't void, send me the divorce papers. I'll have him sign them."
I told her no, I needed his address, so I could have them properly served. She kept refusing to give me his address and now has told me he's NOT married, and that if I want a divorce I have to go through her. (lol)
So my question is: What am I allowed to do to get his address from her?
If I call their local sheriff, would they be able to get it? Or should I just serve him through a publication? I do not have the money for hassles, and honestly our divorce should be one of the more simple ones, since we have no kids and no debts or anything owned together.
Thanks~